Hanalei Vierra is a Therapist based in the USA. My areas of speciality include Anger Management, Anxiety, Coping Skills, Depression, Divorce, Family Conflict, Parenting, Peer Relationships, Self Esteem, and Stress. This profile is currently unclaimed; please validate the details are current when communicating with the mental health professional.
Therapist Overview
In my private practice, I have SPECIALIZED IN WORKING WITH ADULT MEN for over 30 years– as individuals, in relationships, and in groups. The guys who come to see me are often confused and feel clueless about how to be better emotional partners in their intimate relationships. My view is that traditional masculinity has brainwashed us as men to believe that “being a man” requires us to hide behind a mask of masculinity to show the world that we are unaffected by our very human experiences of fear, pain, anger, sadness, and shame. This keeps us functioning in our adult lives and relationships as emotionally immature little boys. I help men discover the strength that comes from being emotionally honest and vulnerable, which will help us redefine “masculinity” for our 21st century world, and will help eradicate the misogyny, sexism, racism, and homophobia that is hurtful to humanity. I work with couples together with my wife of 25 years, M’Lissa Trent, Ph.D. (www.drmlissatrent.com). I hav