Shannon Bolander is a Therapist based in the USA. My areas of speciality include Chronic Illness, Chronic Pain, Coping Skills, Depression, Divorce, Life Transitions, Parenting, Self Esteem, Stress, and Women's Issues. This profile is currently unclaimed; please validate the details are current when communicating with the mental health professional.
Therapist Overview
Yesterday, the two of you argued- again. Nothing actually got settled, as usual, and now you’ll both just spend the next few days walking on eggshells around each other until it eventually happens again. What happened to this relationship? You used to have so much fun together, but now you can barely remember those days. This is not what you signed up for. This relationship was supposed to be your safe place, not what keeps you up at night. Maybe leaving is the answer… but you somehow know that just leaving won’t be easy, either. Never knowing what to do about it or how you really feel- the weight of it all is absolutely crushing. With specialized training for couples through the Gottman Institute, I can help. We will take a careful look at the problems you both are having and together, you will receive expert feedback and instruction that will help you both stop the cycle of arguing, discover new understandings of each other, and how to rekindle the love that has been missing. Being in a relationship that isn’t meeting your needs can be an enormous source of frustration and pain. Couples wait an average of over 6 years to seek professional help, but you don’t have to. We can start sorting out your relationship’s problems today, over the phone, in a free 15 minute consultation.