Victoria James

As Esther Perel says, “the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives.” Are you experiencing a disconnection in your relationship(s)? Is the sex you are having–or not having–leaving you feeling broken, alone, and filled with anxiety? Maybe the sex is great, but you are still feeling unheard or not prioritized in your relationship(s). Through individual or partnered work, we can work together to identify patterns causing disconnection, address and heal past traumas, and learn new tools for increasing intimacy, trust, and sexual and relational satisfaction. I have specific training in sex therapy, domestic violence, and sexual assault counseling. I have experience working with clients with desire discrepancy, erectile dysfunction, sexual and relational trauma, and other psychosexual issues. These struggles are normal and there is hope for overcoming them as we move towards a more fulfilling, connected life. Opening ourselves up to the impact of another is an immensely vulnerable experience. Yet taking that step into vulnerability allows us the opportunity for closeness, worth, and clarity. Let’s experience the “tough” together. Let’s build a space together where we are safe, respected, and cared for–where we can do the work that will lead to lasting change.