Joan Emerson

My specialty is short term Couples Therapy. If we want to feel safe in working out our difficulties, we have to learn some communication techniques that work. The first goal in therapy therefore, is to begin to talk to each other in a way so that even if we’re not necessarily agreed with, its a relief to finally be heard and understood. Working out solutions can proceed from there, but only when its safe enough to be open and honest. Learning and using these techniques is a tremendous growth experience both individually and as a couple. Results can be seen almost immediately and consolidated in 4-6 sessions. Three theories influence me: Imago Therapy teaches the communication rules that enable successful talking about inner issues; Emotionally Focused Therapy acknowledges the deep needs we still have for attachment and safety that we had as little children: and John Gottman’s couples research showing us scientific proof of what works. Many couples come in expressing their love and desi