Darren Marc Haber

There is a way out…of the suffering, of the loneliness and agony so hard to express to another person, and of the shame that you “ought” to be able to figure this out on your own. I think we are hard-wired to connect, and that lack of intimate connection is so much more complicated than meets the eye. In some ways, the higher the intelligence, the more difficult it can be to work oneself out of emotional knots. Just feeling like a trusting person actually “gets it” is half the battle. And believe it or not, corny as it sounds, the awful suffering one feels can be a bridge to a greater connection to humanity. I offer guidance, insight, empathy, and a little humor in these dark times, in a trusting and intimate setting. The first step is to “humanize” the problem, and understand it in a broader context. You are not your suffering or pain! Everyone I have met in my office is a good person struggling with a difficult problem. The self-criticism is but a symptom. It starts with a phone call. I offer a free 20 minute phone consultation to “try me out.” If we meet, and both feel it is a fit, andI will do all I can to help you out of whatever painful or overwhelming mental labyrinth you feel stuck in. The paradox is, I help you discover the resources you already have to start moving ahead, even if it doesn’t like it.