John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman founded the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy. The method uses assessments, communication skills, and real-life practices and skills to assist partners in becoming closer to one another.
One of the main theories behind the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy is the Sound Relationship House theory. The Gottmans assume that partners can grow closer in a relationship by having a solid foundation of understanding. This foundation begins with safety and builds upon itself to include the goal of creating shared meaning.
Anyone who wants to improve their relationship can benefit from the Gottman Method, including married couples or those in a committed relationship.
The Sound Relationship House theory includes tactics such as knowing one another deeply and creating love maps (details regarding partners personalities, likes, dislikes, etc.), sharing fondness of one another, turning to each other for needs, managing a positive perspective, managing conflict, achieving goals and dreams, and creating shared meaning.
Your counselor will work with you and your partner to develop the necessary skills for relating to each other in a more positive, loving way.
The Gottman Method effectively assists couples in resolving conflict and growing closer together.
Therapists Who Specialize in Using the Gottman Method
I specialize in Addictions, Codependency, Depression, Anxiety, Domestic Violence, Trauma, Behavioral Issues, and more. My clients struggle with various issues. They are facing ongoing loneliness, sadness, and fear. My clients expect a compassionate space in which to explore their difficulties; unconditional positive regard from me to them. I respect clients where they are in their lives and joi...
As a Biblical Counselor, it is my desire to help individuals, couples, and families grow stronger and more resilient in their journey through life. I have counseling experience working with married couples, and families. As an educator, I currently work with middle school, high school, and college students. I specialize in working with troubled teens and their families. I also work with...
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who works with individuals, couples and families. Life can be challenging at times and we can all experience stressors. We can feel stuck in unhealthy patterns, thoughts, behaviors and/or relationships. Therapy can be a beneficial way to explore these patterns and make healthy changes. I offer a safe and supportive space to work through these issues...
Gretchen is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor. She comes from a strength-based approach that is understanding and non-judgemental. Her career path originally started out in Public Relations and Marketing at Bradley University in Peoria, IL. Her early career was focused on live events, sports marketing, advertising and entertainment media with Fortune 500 companies. She enjoys executive...
Offering video sessions in response to COVID19. You’re not communicating with each other anymore. The littlest things turn into much bigger issues. If you have children, you don’t have extra energy. If you’re working, you don’t have extra time. You can’t keep on like this. This isn’t what you signed up for! You’re absolutely right: you can’t keep on like this. Throughout a relationship, couples...
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist fluent in French and Creole who works with individuals, couples and families seeking changes to overcome challenges in their lives. As someone who focuses on the therapeutic alliance as the basis for change, I believe therapy is a collaborative process and have been a fanatic of client centered work and feedback. I am committed to supporting my clie...
She/Her/Hers. Full Spectrum Counseling of Idaho is a sanctuary for the LGBTQIA+ community and those who love them. As a queer licensed professional counselor, I affirm transgender and BIPOC folx with my whole heart and seek to provide quality, compassionate mental health counseling and support to all those who are systemically oppressed and marginlized. I am a person-centered humanist with an...
HERE FOR YOU. If you are feeling defeated in your relationship, overwhelmed by life, burned-out by obligations, or angry at others, you’ve come to the right place. Here you can find a safe place to share and honor your story, discover your purpose, and break free of shame, guilt, anger, and other areas holding you back from being the most effective and authentic version of yourself. The clients...
My practice is rooted in the idea that we are all born with basic goodness, something we never lose. As we grow, messages are passed down from parents, family, and society that create our world view. Experiences shape how we attach to others and ourselves. As children, we would have had no choice but to take in these beliefs. These messages were often the products of well-meaning, conditioned...
Treatment is a partnership, where we explore together what approaches work best for your needs. It will only work if it works for you. Emotional safety and pacing yourself, in what you decide to address, how, and when, is important to making progress. Your information and sessions will always be kept private and confidential. As of 10/9/2020, my practice is full, but I will be re-evaluating on...
My goal is to provide you a safe, confidential space where you genuinely feel supported and heard as you to navigate through challenges you are currently experiencing. I hold the belief that you are the expert of your life and as a therapist it is my role to support you as you identify problems/goals that you would like to work on in therapy. Since 2005 I have worked with clients struggling wit...
I am Dr. Adina Gociu, a licensed psychologist specializing in the treatment of children, adolescents, families, couples, and adults who suffer from a variety of mental issues, including trauma and abuse, grief, depression, anxiety, behavior disorders, self-esteem, adjustment and relationship difficulties, divorce, and parenting issues. I use evidence-based approaches to effectively help clients...
You're motivated to make a change. You may be confused about where to start, or if the change is even possible. You're seeking support as you transition through a difficult moment in life. Or perhaps, you've already made the difficult transition and you can't figure out how to return to "normal". I specialize in helping people overcome anxiety, improve self esteem and decrease symptoms of...
Life is crazy and I am happy to meet you at whatever stage of life you are in. Taking care of yourself is priority and I am grateful for the opportunity to be on your side. Let our time together be a time of healing and growth. Our counseling relationship starts right where you are. I will meet you at whatever stage of life you are at and we will set goals together. I am on your team and will...
Our modern culture sets an accelerated external rhythm, As a therapist, I have observed that this rhythm has contributed to higher levels of stress, which has fueled increasing levels of depression, anxiety and loss of connection in relationship. Symptoms may include shortness of breath, racing thoughts, panic, burnout, loneliness and isolation. Using a framework of CBT, I partner with individu...
