Betsy Nuismer is a Therapist based in the USA. My areas of speciality include Family Conflict, and Women's Issues. This profile is currently unclaimed; please validate the details are current when communicating with the mental health professional.
Therapist Overview
Marriages go through pain. We all know that. What really matters is what happens between us immediately after that pain hits. Do we move close to hold each other and cry together? Do we move away from each other, get stuck in our anger, or just not feel at all? One direction creates a secure bond that literally causes emotional and physical pain to be less intense and fills a deep well of contentment and peace inside us. The other direction leaves us feeling alone, invisible, and unwanted. “Too often, what couples do not see is that most fights are really protests over emotional disconnection. Underneath all the distress, partners are desperate to know: Are you there for me? Do you need me? Do you rely on me?” – Sue Johnson (Creator of EFT) I am a marriage restoration specialist trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). I know what it takes to get spouses to move toward each other instead of away. I know what it takes to make vulnerability safe. I know how to build a secure b