Mary Hoefler

Relational disconnect? Having the same argument over and over again? Thinking of divorce? Infidelity? Yours? Theirs? Forgive? Retaliate? How to stay? How to leave? As a pragmatic integrationist, there is no One Size Fits All. Relationships are complex, layered and at the very center of who we are and how we define ourselves. Most of us need to learn how to say what we mean and mean what we say, which sounds trite and simplistic, but is oh so difficult. Getting out of our comfort zone and leaving things behind that are toxic, abusive, or stifling perpetuates growth and helps us live our fullest life. My role as therapist is to provide a safe space where the diversity of experiences can be explored with openness, compassion, and a lack of judgment. I am direct, will never sugar-coat “the elephant in the room,” and will do all that I can to support your process. Change is difficult, but so is being stuck, unfulfilled, unseen and not valued. I bring over 30 years of experience working with