John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman founded the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy. The method uses assessments, communication skills, and real-life practices and skills to assist partners in becoming closer to one another.
One of the main theories behind the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy is the Sound Relationship House theory. The Gottmans assume that partners can grow closer in a relationship by having a solid foundation of understanding. This foundation begins with safety and builds upon itself to include the goal of creating shared meaning.
Anyone who wants to improve their relationship can benefit from the Gottman Method, including married couples or those in a committed relationship.
The Sound Relationship House theory includes tactics such as knowing one another deeply and creating love maps (details regarding partners personalities, likes, dislikes, etc.), sharing fondness of one another, turning to each other for needs, managing a positive perspective, managing conflict, achieving goals and dreams, and creating shared meaning.
Your counselor will work with you and your partner to develop the necessary skills for relating to each other in a more positive, loving way.
The Gottman Method effectively assists couples in resolving conflict and growing closer together.
Therapists Who Specialize in Using the Gottman Method
Are you and your partner tired of arguing and not seeing eye to eye? Has infidelity resulted in trust concerns? Are you struggling with issues of self-esteem, or emotional distress? Are you struggling with childhood trauma? Are you and your partner thinking about marriage? As a Licensed Marriage & Family therapist, I believe that relationship's are the central tenant of our lives. My philosophy...
My mission is for each client to find their true self and voice and see that so many of our negative storylines and scripts are just programming we have picked up throughout our lives. My heart is to follow each client's lead on where he or she needs to go versus my own agenda and / or preferences. I believe that it is in allowing space for our experiences of our full humanity that we realize t...
In life we try to balance the responsibilities of work, school and day-to day life so we can enjoy our time with our family and friends. However when we struggle with issues related to trauma, grief, addiction, anxiety, depression, or major life changes it becomes harder to find the enjoyment in life. I've been working with youth, young adults and their families for 10 years. My goal is to help...
I specialize in and have a passion for couples seeking to improve their relationship with their spouse or significant other and who yearn for deeper levels of emotional, relational and physical intimacy. I also come alongside parents and their children to develop better ways of communicating by giving them tools as to how to relate to each other in ways that create a calmer, more peaceful home,...
While anxiety is a normal reaction to life's stressors, at some point it can lead to depression and helplessness. I work with individuals who experience anxiety, panic disorder and phobias, depression, stress/anger management issues, PTSD, grief, and end of life issues. Grief manifests itself in various ways from sadness to physical illness. I am a warm and compassionate therapist who can assis...
I received my Bachelor's Degree from the University of North Texas in 2009. I completed my Master's Degree in 2017 at Southern Methodist University, taking courses with an emphasis in counseling individual, couples, family, groups and the LGBT community. I have experience working with people who have suffered various types of trauma, including sexual abuse, domestic violence, family violence an...
Mettarel Associates, PS is improving the community one relationship at a time. We provide quality therapy services and workshops for the general public, and professional training, supervision, and employment for therapists. We are inclusive and serve a variety of cultures and communities. We specialize in attachment based, humanistic, systemic therapies. We have therapists with extensive traini...
Does life feel out of control? Maybe you have found yourself in a situation that is nothing like you thought it would be. Perhaps your spouse made bad choices and you are trying to pick up the pieces. Or you have made a bad choice and have to deal with the consequences. Maybe you are struggling with anxiety/depression and feel like you cannot get a grip. I do believe you can gain control of you...
I am passionate about working with families, couples, adolescents, and individuals from diverse populations. My professional experience includes working with clients seeking treatment for a variety of issues including marriage issues, family conflict, parenting issues, multigenerational issues, depression, anxiety, body image, and eating disorders at any stage of life. In addition to this, I ha...
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and provide counseling services to individuals, couples, and families. I use an integrated approach with emphasis in Emotional Focused Therapy which is a proven and empirical based practice effective with all types of therapy especially relationship therapy. Relationship issues can and do effect our mental state such as depression and anxiety. I help clien...
Welcome to Anchor Point Professional Counseling! My name is Jonathan Le and I am the founder of this private practice. Are you stuck repeating the same old patterns in life and have trouble making decisions? Do you feel sadness or hopelessness in your current situation? Do you or your spouse feel betrayed due to infidelity in the relationship? Do you feel trapped in your struggles with anxiety?...
Inner-Evolution Counseling, Coaching and Yoga LLC brings 30 years of experience and draws from a blend of eastern wisdom and western science to compassionately guide individuals, families, and groups toward their highest potential. Our mission is to help our clients activate the inner resources and guidance needed to remove obstacles and create pathways to more joyful living. Our success lies i...
I am passionate about helping individuals achieve their best selves and find fulfillment in life. Sometimes, we are held back by past hurts, low self esteem, anxiety, loss, or other life challenges. If you want to find ways to overcome life challenges, feel more confident, and have better relationships, I am here to help! I also love working with couples. Relationships, especially those with ou...
Working in the field of chemical dependency and eating disorders has taught me that recovery is possible and it's different for everyone. My "happy place" as a therapist is when I get to work alongside motivated, adult clients who are looking to reduce & relieve distress in their lives caused by substance use, eating disorders and/or postpartum difficulties. I am no stranger to mood and anxiety...
Soul Care Place specializes in both individual and couples therapy. Whatever difficulty brings you to counseling, our aim is to move you from a place of chaos, pain, and confusion to a place of solace, connection, and wholeness. Whether you are wanting tools to manage anxiety, seeking help with relationship distress, needing tools for adulting, or desiring to work through unexpectedly difficult...