John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman founded the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy. The method uses assessments, communication skills, and real-life practices and skills to assist partners in becoming closer to one another.
One of the main theories behind the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy is the Sound Relationship House theory. The Gottmans assume that partners can grow closer in a relationship by having a solid foundation of understanding. This foundation begins with safety and builds upon itself to include the goal of creating shared meaning.
Anyone who wants to improve their relationship can benefit from the Gottman Method, including married couples or those in a committed relationship.
The Sound Relationship House theory includes tactics such as knowing one another deeply and creating love maps (details regarding partners personalities, likes, dislikes, etc.), sharing fondness of one another, turning to each other for needs, managing a positive perspective, managing conflict, achieving goals and dreams, and creating shared meaning.
Your counselor will work with you and your partner to develop the necessary skills for relating to each other in a more positive, loving way.
The Gottman Method effectively assists couples in resolving conflict and growing closer together.
Therapists Who Specialize in Using the Gottman Method
Both personally and professionally, I am a strong believer in the healing power of relationships. However, sometimes even our most important relationships falter, causing pain, confusion and turmoil. If you currently find yourself struggling with a relationship-related issue (spouse, romantic partner, parent/sibling, friend, boss/co-worker) I am here to listen and to help you achieve greater...
Tara works as a therapist to service individuals, couples, adolescents, and families. She earned her Master’s degree from Friends University in Marriage and Family Therapy. She began her career working at South Central Mental Health in Andover, KS, before transitioning into private practice in 2013. Tara has focused her practice on working with anxiety, depression, survivors of suicide, attachm...
*Immediate in-person appts available* Asking for help isn’t easy. It can feel scary, painful, and overwhelming. Yet, I believe it is worth the risk when you know you are not alone. That’s why when you are ready to ask for help, I am here to provide a trustworthy, safe, and collaborative counseling relationship. I have successfully helped others with anxiety, grief, depression, negative thoughts...
Relationships between people are some of the most important and most complicated parts of our lives. Conflicts can run away with our emotions, and our communication habits can make it hard to find paths toward change. Relational therapy gives clients the opportunity to learn and grow together, and to find solutions to life's conflicts in collaboration with a therapist and--more importantly--wit...
I believe we all have events in the past that have shaped us and changed how we think about ourselves. I am interested in helping clients discover what is stopping them from becoming the person they want to be. I have over 11 years of clinical experience and have worked with clients of many cultures, ages, and diverse backgrounds. As a mom of 3 young boys, I enjoy working with other parents and...
I believe all people have a deep desire to be heard and understood. Creating safe spaces to explore the issues of life is what I am passionate about. I enjoy working with couples, families, and individuals. My goal is to be a partner with you on your journey toward healing your relationships. As a marriage and family therapist, I offer a compassionate insightful perspective as a tool for growth...
The therapeutic bond is of utmost importance and providing and creating a comfortable and nurturing environment is an integral part of forming a lasting positive change. As your therapist, it is my ultimate goal to create a special space where you feel comfortable to be your true self - that's when the healing really begins! I consider myself a support pillar - here to sit with you in the pain ...
Clients to have a safe place to unpack whatever is on their heart and foster healing, growth, and change. I’m dedicated to developing a collaborative and authentic therapeutic relationship with my clients. I use an integrative approach to therapy to help client’s journey through depression, anxiety, loss, trauma, life transitions, marriage, and family issues. As a marriage and family therapist ...
Are you confused about your life? Do you struggle to sort out your emotions? Does trauma have you spiraling out of control? Is grief so overwhelming that you are not sure what to do? Have you tried to create healthy relationships only to find yourself hurt and disappointed? Do you feel nervous, fear judgement or struggle discussing the challenges you are experiencing in your life? We all want t...
Would you like to feel more connected and valued in your life and relationships? Together we can enter your world as you see it, including what you believe about yourself, both good and bad. Behaviors and emotions make sense when we see them clearly from the perspective of the person, given their history and the lessons they have learned. I enjoying meeting people who want more from their life ...
Online Video Based Therapy from the comfort and safety of your home. Serving Hawaii and Washington. The good news- therapy is effective. The bad news- mental health symptoms often get in the way of attending therapy. This is why my services are offered through a secure online platform. I offer video, phone and text based therapy. Trouble leaving the house or getting out of bed? That’s ok, I’ll...
You’re feeling broken. I can help you pick up the pieces. You want more out of life. Maybe you want a more healthy, vibrant marriage. Maybe you want to let go of anger and resentments from past traumas that are stealing your peace and joy today. Maybe you want to say “no” more-without feeling guilty. You are not your problems. You are full of possibilities that are just waiting to be discovered...
I believe in working collaboratively with every individual, couple, and family, to identify treatment needs, personal strengths, as well as creating a plan to foster personal growth, development, and success. In prior experience, I have had the privilege to work with a variety of populations, including college-aged students, individuals who experience severe and persistent mental, children,...
As a Mental Health Counselor in San Diego, I have the experience and passion of working with families in a clinical, Telehealth and school setting: Adults, tweens, teens, prenatal patients, women, children and children with special needs. I offer CBT, DBT, Couples Counseling, Play Therapy, EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) “Tapping”, Neurofeedback and Talk therapy. I specialize in treating trau...
Are you puzzled with your love life? Searching for love, a romantic relationship Where I am loved with all I am? Do you often ask yourself if I am with the right person? It seems like you cannot hold a conversation without falling to an argument, with criticism and blame? I want you to know regardless of the nature of the relationship or the problem I am here to help you get through it. We are...
