Paul Doud

Intimate life partnerships are incredibly important to us. They provide a solid base for all that we do in life, from raising children, to doing our work in the world, to simply enjoying life. When that relationship becomes less than safe and secure, it can throw us into deep distress. We get into arguing, misunderstanding, distancing, emotional pain, fear, confusion, hopelessness or numbing out. Our best attempts to regain a loving connection may not work, or make things worse. This is not uncommon. Couples caught up in repeating patterns of distress and disconnection often need help to get unstuck and reconnected in love. I use Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples because it is the most effective way to heal and rebuild solid, satisfying relationships. Hundreds of marital therapists have used it with great success to help couples meet marital challenges, and to transform their relationships into secure, loving connections. You can find more about EFT at www.iceeft.com Together we’ll explore your ‘dance’ together: how you impact each other, and how you typically respond. I’ll invite each of you to deepen your sharing of your inner experience: impulses, thoughts, emotions, needs and fears. We’ll use tried and true ways to sort out what’s wrong, and re-engage in safe, secure and loving ways. It will make the all difference.