Reality Therapy states that individuals, not mental health issues, are responsible for their actions and behavior. People make choices that help them get their needs met, but some of these choices are unhelpful, leading to poor relationships skills and ways of relating to others. The therapist’s goal is to motivate individuals to take responsibility for their choices and behavior.
Counselors traditionally use Reality Therapy in prisons and schools. They can use it for individuals, couples, or groups.
Some mental health professionals claim Reality Therapy doesn’t validate mental health diagnoses.
Motivation, behavior, choices, and action are core components in Reality Therapy. Your therapist might help you understand each of these concepts and how they apply to your life. Therapists often spend time asking clients what their needs are. These can range from small things, such as desiring to rid yourself of a bad habit, to larger-scale issues, such as wanting to get your needs more fully met by your partner. Your therapist will help you decide what behaviors can more efficiently get your needs met.
Much of Reality Therapy involves identifying how your behavior, thus far, hasn’t been helpful. Once you gain this understanding, you will be more likely to make choices that align with getting your needs met in healthy, positive ways.
Therapists Who Specialize in Using Reality Therapy
Each person has inherent worth and the capacity to grow toward personal fulfillment. There comes a time when help is needed from a certified professional to cope with many of life's challenges. I recognize the unique challenges of each individual and systems that may exist, and seek to integrate emotions, thoughts, and actions to enable fuller, happier lives. I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family...
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I am not accepting new clients at this time. I am passionate about working with individuals who are struggling with anxiety, adjustment, depression, grief, body image, anger management, domestic violence survivors and other mental health related concerns. I approach counseling from a person-centered mindset with shared responsibility for the counseling process in mind. Once a counseling...
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You deserve to to feel happy and in control of your life! At times we find ourselves relying on unhealthy coping skills when we feel depressed, anxious, grief, or just dealing with life in general. The trauma of our past often affects our present and we do not realize that is the root cause of our feelings. You maybe suffering from chronic pain or illness that contributes to your feelings of...
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