What is the Gottman Method?

Home » Treatment Therapies » Gottman Method Couples Therapy » Page 529

John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman founded the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy. The method uses assessments, communication skills, and real-life practices and skills to assist partners in becoming closer to one another.

One of the main theories behind the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy is the Sound Relationship House theory. The Gottmans assume that partners can grow closer in a relationship by having a solid foundation of understanding. This foundation begins with safety and builds upon itself to include the goal of creating shared meaning.

Anyone who wants to improve their relationship can benefit from the Gottman Method, including married couples or those in a committed relationship.

The Sound Relationship House theory includes tactics such as knowing one another deeply and creating love maps (details regarding partners personalities, likes, dislikes, etc.), sharing fondness of one another, turning to each other for needs, managing a positive perspective, managing conflict, achieving goals and dreams, and creating shared meaning.

Your counselor will work with you and your partner to develop the necessary skills for relating to each other in a more positive, loving way.

The Gottman Method effectively assists couples in resolving conflict and growing closer together.

Therapists Who Specialize in Using the Gottman Method

Deciding to seek therapy can seem overwhelming and yet could be the most important decision you make for yourself and your loved ones. Facing our fears and recognizing we need help facing life’s challenges is the first step in healing our wounded self or our dysfunctional family interactions. I see this desire to change or get to the root of our difficulties as a sign of mental health, not as...
You want individualized therapy in a private, comfortable environment. You want only experienced therapists with specific background in working with your unique challenges and issues. You are looking for caring, focused, effective therapists who will develop strategies that will work for you. We have the experience to effectively solve your personal challenges and we love what we do....
The human experience is hard not becuz you are doing it wrong but becuz you are doing it right. Life is an ever changing ride & rather than resisting the process we can lean into the growth and beauty that change can bring. That means joy & abundance are achievable, even for you. Therapy can prompt growth and healing for adolescents & adults facing challenges like anxiety, depression, trauma,...
*Accepting new clients and telehealth offered* Want to feel whole again? We specialize in the promotion of satisfying, secure and close relationships, both to ourselves and our loved ones. CCHC focuses on harmonious relationships, emotional calm, and abundant self-worth. We appreciate the impact that connection has on our mental, emotional, and physical well-being - when our relationships are...

The Center for Men’s Excellence

San Diego

California

***We provide both in-person and HIPAA-compliant secure video sessions*** We are an outpatient group practice with skilled therapists who provide structured, scientifically-supported psychological support designed to give our clients the tools they need to better manage their issues and to thrive long-term. We specialize in working with men who present with a variety of common issues including...

Toni D Kim

New York

New York

Are you looking for a new and more empowered way of being? You are a passionate, creative, and driven person who has found that although your life looks great from the outside, there is a deep loneliness or a feeling that something is missing. You have an innate sense that there may be a connection to the past that keeps you stuck and repeating disempowering or even destructive patterns. You ar...
You want to be happier, healthier, and more in tune with yourself and others. You see and feel your potential, but maybe there is something getting in the way...or maybe you are going through a new and challenging time. Together, we can assess what is going on, and develop a plan, a map, using research-based tools to guide you toward your goals. Our work will take place in a supportive, gentle...
My passion is working with clients that have been in therapy before and don't believe it will help, struggle to trust others, and are generally resistant to services. I also am Level II trained in Gottman Couple's Therapy and knowledgeable around EFT (Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy). I have a passion for working with trauma and have advanced training in EMDR. In addition to providing menta...
Have you or your child experienced a recent life transition? Are you depressed, sad, irritable, anxious, or stressed because of it? I provide support to adolescents and adults going through common but difficult life transitions. This includes marriage/divorce, child birth, blended families, career changes, school problems, or loss of relationships or loved ones. I would like to help you and/or...

The Anxiety Relief Center

San Francisco

California

The Anxiety Relief Center offers high quality therapy to help you ease anxiety and stress. We aim to share tools that empower you INDIVIDUAL THERAPY- Individual therapy is designed as a space and time that is completely yours. A space where you will be able to explore your feelings, thoughts, sensations, beliefs, and behaviors. COUPLES THERAPY- Therapy offers a neutral space where you and your...
I work alongside people who are navigating the ups and downs of life, seeking healing from loss as well as traumatic experiences, and finding freedom in the recovery of their mental health. I believe therapy can be one of many powerful tools that allows us to integrate with our authentic self, reclaim our story, connect in a new or meaningful way, and experience a life worth living. My practice...
Waiting to get help can prolong suffering. A lot can change in 8 weeks. Get started now with a Thrive West Therapist. We specialize in working with individuals wanting to get to the root of overwhelming anxiety, discomfort, relationship issues, infertility, ADHD, career, life transitions, and stress. Anxiety and overwhelming feelings don't have to control you. If feeling weighed down by fear,...
ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS. Are you feeling down or overwhelmed? Do you feel alone in a room full of people? Do you need help with identifying appropriate life goals; developing effective coping skills; improving stress; alleviating depressive symptoms or embracing life. People enter counseling for many reasons, from anxiety, stress, mental health fitness, depression, trauma and grief. Still others ...

Ting Lee

Buffalo

New York

Therapy is the gentle, intricate process of restoring parts of yourself that you are struggling with. While we do not get to choose how our life experiences or suffering affects us, we have the power to overcome and grow - even when we least expect it. If you have been struggling to feel like yourself and perhaps identify with hopelessness, anxiousness and preferring to isolate, there is a way...
**I have openings within 1 week. I work with clients ages 15 and up, adults, and couples. I am a thoughtful, compassionate person, and I am committed to helping my clients with their therapy goals. My ideal client is female and age 30 or up but I work well with older teens and adults. I use CBT often in my work, and I have specialized training in EMDR and Accelerated Resolution Therapy (trauma...

 

We are thrilled to share the news that TPN.Health has acquired All Counseling.

If you're a provider on All Counseling please claim your Free TPN.Health account today!