John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman founded the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy. The method uses assessments, communication skills, and real-life practices and skills to assist partners in becoming closer to one another.
One of the main theories behind the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy is the Sound Relationship House theory. The Gottmans assume that partners can grow closer in a relationship by having a solid foundation of understanding. This foundation begins with safety and builds upon itself to include the goal of creating shared meaning.
Anyone who wants to improve their relationship can benefit from the Gottman Method, including married couples or those in a committed relationship.
The Sound Relationship House theory includes tactics such as knowing one another deeply and creating love maps (details regarding partners personalities, likes, dislikes, etc.), sharing fondness of one another, turning to each other for needs, managing a positive perspective, managing conflict, achieving goals and dreams, and creating shared meaning.
Your counselor will work with you and your partner to develop the necessary skills for relating to each other in a more positive, loving way.
The Gottman Method effectively assists couples in resolving conflict and growing closer together.
Therapists Who Specialize in Using the Gottman Method
As a mental health counselor I strive to build trust with my clients by creating a space filled with kindness, respect, and empathy. I work with a wide range of emotional and behavioral issues with children, tweens, teenagers, and adults. If you are feeling stuck, anxious, depressed or having trouble coping with life’s challenges, I am here for you. I am dedicated to utilizing the most effectiv...
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My name is Guan Ellerbe. I am the CEO or Leading Light Behavioral Health, Inc. LLBH is a growing private practice that currently offers 100% telehealth services. We values diversity, social justice and family. LLBH clinicians utilize an array of evidenced-based approaches such as Trauma focused, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), DV support, The Gottman Methods for couples and more. We...
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I am excited that you have decided to begin your Self Care Journey and/or work towards Strengthening your Relationships. Today is the perfect day to take control of your life. It is a great time to heal old wounds of Hurt, Guilt, and Disappointment. Let’s challenge negative thinking patterns, beliefs, and experiences by developing Healthy Coping Mechanisms. I want to help guide you in dissolvin...
My areas of focus include treating adolescents & adults with anxiety, depression, and substance use disorders. I am very passionate about helping my patients overcome guilt, shame and self-esteem issues. I incorporate a lot of DBT skills into sessions, helping patients build distress tolerance, emotion regulation and interpersonal communication skills - along with how to apply these skills to...
When life feels overwhelming or confusing, courageous people seek support. It is my passion and honor to provide a warm, supportive, and confidential environment for those who find themselves there. Do you have relationships that need help navigating intimacy, boundaries, or communication issues? Dealing with past wounds that continue to create problems in your life today? Find yourself worried...
