John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman founded the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy. The method uses assessments, communication skills, and real-life practices and skills to assist partners in becoming closer to one another.
One of the main theories behind the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy is the Sound Relationship House theory. The Gottmans assume that partners can grow closer in a relationship by having a solid foundation of understanding. This foundation begins with safety and builds upon itself to include the goal of creating shared meaning.
Anyone who wants to improve their relationship can benefit from the Gottman Method, including married couples or those in a committed relationship.
The Sound Relationship House theory includes tactics such as knowing one another deeply and creating love maps (details regarding partners personalities, likes, dislikes, etc.), sharing fondness of one another, turning to each other for needs, managing a positive perspective, managing conflict, achieving goals and dreams, and creating shared meaning.
Your counselor will work with you and your partner to develop the necessary skills for relating to each other in a more positive, loving way.
The Gottman Method effectively assists couples in resolving conflict and growing closer together.
Therapists Who Specialize in Using the Gottman Method
I am a licensed clinical psychologist with specialization in working with couples and trauma survivors. I draw from research and clinical experience, along with an understanding of your unique background and strengths, when creating an individualized plan for helping you meet your goals. Whether you are feeling lonely and misunderstood in your relationships, struggle to manage the stress of dai...
As a counselor I am curious and sensitive to each person’s unique experience. I understand the body we occupy matters. Our physical abilities, family of origin, race, class, gender, sexuality all play a part in how we understand ourselves and the world around us. While I value difference, I also believe we all have core needs. The need to be loved, accepted, seen and felt is at the heart of bei...
I provide support to couples and individuals who are navigating relationship conflict, sex-related concerns, life transitions, anxiety, and depression. Clients I see often come to therapy with some common issues: feeling stuck in patterns of conflict or disconnection, communication problems, difficulty talking about sex or sexuality, pre-marital/marital concerns, infidelity, desire for more...
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Therapy is often times a difficult and personal journey that one enters for a variety of reasons. It provides a safe place for people to process and work through circumstances while also offering valuable insight and perspective into whatever journey they may find themselves on. I feel humbled and a sense of gratitude that you would allow me to be a part of this very personal journey that you h...
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Begin Within Therapy was established in 2015. We believe within every person lies a meaningful story. We are a group of therapists who are all attachment-focused and trauma-informed and ready to understand your story. We offer a variety of therapy options to help you meet your goals, that include options outside of traditional talk therapy, as well as more traditional therapy modalities. Please...
I understand how difficult relationships can be at times and how individuals may endure problems that affect their every day lives. I am here to help. I have a passion for working with individuals, families, and couples. My goal is to provide you the clients ,with tools that can help with overcoming issues such as conflict, anxiety, depression, marital problems and child behavior. My interests ...
Are you struggling and looking to make positive changes in your life? You've braved the first (and often most difficult) step by reaching out to seek treatment! As a therapist, it is my goal to create a comfortable and collaborative treatment space right from the start. I work with people from a non-judgmental, humorous, empathetic, and authentic approach to help them reach whatever goals are t...
I have lived in the DFW area for twenty years and consider myself a Texan who wasn’t born here but I am here now. I am working on my practicum under the supervision of Nanette Rousseau of Rousseau Counseling. I am a Marriage and Family Therapist Intern and what I can offer is safety, connection, empathy, and understanding. I utilize empirically supported tools, open communication, and great...
