John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman founded the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy. The method uses assessments, communication skills, and real-life practices and skills to assist partners in becoming closer to one another.
One of the main theories behind the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy is the Sound Relationship House theory. The Gottmans assume that partners can grow closer in a relationship by having a solid foundation of understanding. This foundation begins with safety and builds upon itself to include the goal of creating shared meaning.
Anyone who wants to improve their relationship can benefit from the Gottman Method, including married couples or those in a committed relationship.
The Sound Relationship House theory includes tactics such as knowing one another deeply and creating love maps (details regarding partners personalities, likes, dislikes, etc.), sharing fondness of one another, turning to each other for needs, managing a positive perspective, managing conflict, achieving goals and dreams, and creating shared meaning.
Your counselor will work with you and your partner to develop the necessary skills for relating to each other in a more positive, loving way.
The Gottman Method effectively assists couples in resolving conflict and growing closer together.
Therapists Who Specialize in Using the Gottman Method
Hello! I come to this work with a belief in people, in possibilities, and in the power of relationships. I Work exclusively with couples, and I work from the perspective that healing happens in a positive environment, and that relationships are sustained through love, laughter, presence, humanity, acceptance, and solidarity. While people consult with me for a variety of reasons, I specialize in...
As a professional counselor licensed in 2010 and in private practice since 2015, I enjoy working with clients seeking a healthy balance in their lives. Working as a team, I find that the clients benefit most from collaboration to restore areas in their lives that are disjointed. My approach is practical, down-to-earth, and very nurturing. I provide services to adolescents and adults in individu...
I am a licensed mental health counselor in Indiana with over 10 years of experience working with a variety of ages and issues at The Aberdeen Group. Over the course of my career I've worked with families, individuals, couples, and groups to assist them in achieving their goals and assisting with roadblocks that may be hindering them in their lives. I have training and experience working with a...
Who generally consults with me? Typically, a male, dealing with anxiety, depression and relationship or job loss. Perhaps there is a sleep issue involved (see my video at www.joeladelman.com) My client does not seek simple black and white answers but a deeper understanding of the old processes that made him who he is today. Moreover, he wants (and gets) active verbal interaction with me....
I enjoy working with people during difficult stages of their lives. I work specifically with trauma, transitions and various mental health issues. I provide EMDR treatment for those struggling with trauma and anxiety related issues. I have been trained in Gottman Couple Therapy. In addition, I am especially interested in working with people who are experiencing a spiritual transitions. EMDR is ...
The confusion that comes with anxiety, depression, or conflicted relationships can make any person feels as if they are stumbling in the dark, unable to remember positive experiences such as simple happiness, curiosity, and fulfillment . Effective psychotherapy is like "turning on the lights" of awareness, allowing us to recover internal clarity, healthy connection with others, and meaningful...
I love journeying with my clients, helping them find their voice, create meaning out of life's inevitable wounds, and coaching them on how to create a life full of more joy, meaning and purpose. I believe every person has the potential to rewrite their life's narrative, and write a future narrative that unleashes your best self! I would love to hear your story and help you create the life and...
I provide psychotherapy to individuals, couples and families. I see clients from ages twelve to adult. I enjoy working with adolescents and adults in particular. I have a passion for helping couples navigate through relational issues. I have previous experience working in community mental health, crisis services, private practice as well as in the child welfare system. I have completed Level 1...
I work with adult individuals & couples. Positive outcomes start from within. People tend to believe problems and solutions are outside themselves. Often what appear to be pointless arguments today are unconscious demands unleashed on one another, reciprocating & escalating unhealthy emotional intensity. Affairs, addictions, & anger typically show up in relationships from our unconscious acting...
I became a marriage counselor because I am pro-marriage & pro-family. I specialize in repairing marriages in crisis. I help people identify their relationship strengths and challenges and I give them the tools to restore their emotional connection. For couples on the brink of divorce, I offer the cutting-edge option of Discernment Counseling. This brief process helps couples develop clarity and...
Emilee provides counseling services in Long Lake, Minnesota & Tele-therapy across MN (audio/video). Are you struggling to get along in Relationships? Do worries or sadness interfere in your Life? We all needs support navigating life's paths, changes, and stress. Therapy can help clients manage ongoing stress. I enjoy helping clients explore their relationships and understand themselves better....
With self-determination and self-awareness, one can reach a place of absolute self-fulfillment & meaningful healthy connections with others and their spirituality. There are times in one’s life where one may experience obstacles in their relationships and struggle understanding how to make positive changes within those relationships. By focusing on everyone’s individual needs, I help make it...
CLICK ON WEBSITE P3 FOR REVIEWS. Do you lay awake nights worrying about your marriage/relationship? I will help you save yourself & your children from a separation before it is too late! Are you too depressed to get out of bed? Is anger destroying you relationships/family or threatening your job. I'll give you a toolbox of proven techniques to restore your calm & control. Struggling with LGBT...
I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist at Anchor Counseling Center that has experience working with clients in need in home-based and office settings. I have experience working with children, adolescents, individuals, families, and couples. I have treated anxiety, depression, challenging behaviors in children, relational issues and trauma. I believe in working collaboratively and creativ...
Thank you for taking time to look at my profile. After giving a lot of careful thought about whether or not counseling is for you, or if it's time yet, - sifting through so many profiles can seem overwhelming. So, once again, thank you for looking. For me, counseling is about empowerment, acceptance, and connection - to self, first. I provide guidance and support to people experiencing a high...