John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman founded the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy. The method uses assessments, communication skills, and real-life practices and skills to assist partners in becoming closer to one another.
One of the main theories behind the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy is the Sound Relationship House theory. The Gottmans assume that partners can grow closer in a relationship by having a solid foundation of understanding. This foundation begins with safety and builds upon itself to include the goal of creating shared meaning.
Anyone who wants to improve their relationship can benefit from the Gottman Method, including married couples or those in a committed relationship.
The Sound Relationship House theory includes tactics such as knowing one another deeply and creating love maps (details regarding partners personalities, likes, dislikes, etc.), sharing fondness of one another, turning to each other for needs, managing a positive perspective, managing conflict, achieving goals and dreams, and creating shared meaning.
Your counselor will work with you and your partner to develop the necessary skills for relating to each other in a more positive, loving way.
The Gottman Method effectively assists couples in resolving conflict and growing closer together.
Therapists Who Specialize in Using the Gottman Method
Be the change you wish to see in the world - Gandhi. I work with individuals and couples looking to create a new path to change. I have advanced training in the Gottman Method of couples therapy and aim to help couples resolve the underlying issues that come up time and time again, and rebuild that sense of intimacy and connection. I believe that healthy relationships change the way we interact...
I know there are times in our lives when we just can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. We often feel overwhelmed in our relationships, not knowing what to do to make them better. As your therapist, I can be there to provide compassion, insight, and suggestions that can help you move in the direction you want to go. I believe that therapy can help individuals, couples, and families devel...
I am a Maryland Licensed Certified Social Worker with a Clinical Specialty. I received my MSW from the University of Maryland at Baltimore. I work with adults, couples and adolescents. I have over 30 years in the field of behavioral health as a therapist and an administrator. My work with people is based on understanding their unique strengths and using these to address the challenges and goals...
I am a Pastoral Counselor. I hold a Ph.D. in Pastoral Counseling and a Ph.D. in Theology from Atlantic Coast Seminary. I also hold a Masters in Counseling Psychology with an emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy from the University of San Francisco, along with a Master of Divinity from St. Patrick's Seminary & University, and a Bachelor's Degree in Business Management from San Jose State...
Lafe enjoys working with individuals, couples, families, and adolescents with a wide range of life challenges and goals. He follows a relaxed, flexible, and non-judgmental approach that creates room for clients to share their stories, gain insights, and explore new ideas. He believes this is best done in a collaborative, respectful way that builds a safe, comfortable environment for moving forw...
I have 30 years of experience working with clients seeking to thrive in life. I specialize in working with trauma (a stressful event that shatters ones sense of security in the world leaving them feeling overwhelmed and helpless) using EMDR, Sensorimotor psychotherapy, Sandtray therapy, Art therapy and Play therapy. I work with adults, children, and families. I believe in a holistic approach...
My clinical work & research focuses on ➌ main issues ➼ , & . These are also my areas of . If you are struggling in any of these areas, I can offer you effective, brief, solution-focused care. I am a seasoned clinician who primarily works with professionals and their families. My clinical training & experience includes hospital, outpatient and private care. Sessions are personal and warm with a...
***Currently not accepting new patients at this time, but you're welcome to ask about being on a waitlist*** For many people, choosing to seek counseling can be a difficult decision. I believe it takes a lot of courage to reach out for guidance and support, which is why I strive to respect client's autonomy, beliefs, and values in the process of counseling. Counseling is the process of discover...
Are you feeling stuck? Overwhelmed? Are you ready for change but don't know where to begin? If you are looking for a safe space where you will not be judged and told that there is something wrong with you; a place where someone will really hear you and try her best to understand in a non-judgmental way? If the answer is yes, then this is the place for you. Therapy is for anyone who is in pain a...
GREAT WITH TEENS & COLLEGE STUDENTS! Despite your current life circumstances, you can cultivate a life that is meaningful to you. I work from a genuine, solution-focused approach that incorporates Mindfulness and pattern-changing techniques to help you cope with your life stressors and work through negative patterns and beliefs that are restricting you from achieving your true potential. In a c...
As a therapist, I am dedicated to creating a safe and calming space for people to explore their needs on a journey to healing and wellness. I have a relational style of therapy that looks to your goals, experiences and strengths in order to meet your unique needs. I work individually with adults and couples who are struggling with loss, anxiety, depression, life transitions and trauma. I will m...
I work with adults--both individuals and couples in the areas of relationships, substance and sex addiction, mood disorders (anxiety and depression) and life transitions (divorce, empty nest, retirement). Relationships with others (partner, boss, siblings, friends, clients) are a central source of meaning and sometimes difficulty for us. I can work with you around relationship issues, including...
Psychotherapy is for individuals who are motivated to make positive changes in their lives. Some individuals seek out therapy to improve their lives and to help recognize and remove barriers to a healthy lifestyle, relationships, and productivity. While others find that troubling symptoms of anxiety, depression, failed relationships, chronic pain, and loss are too intense to manage on their own...
Currently offering Online Video Sessions only! Struggling to understand and manage the anxieties of our current times? We understand and want to help you navigate these times. Whether you are naturally anxious or find your anxiety is higher due to our current crisis, there are things you can do to help you navigate it; having a place to connect and express those feelings and knowing you can fin...
My approach to counseling focuses on how the influences of the past affect the decisions and interactions you are having today. Throughout our therapy, together, you and I will look at the different aspects of your personality, how you were raised, and the messages you received from you parent(s), and how you functioned in the family system. In addition, both of us will work on counseling goals...
