John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman founded the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy. The method uses assessments, communication skills, and real-life practices and skills to assist partners in becoming closer to one another.
One of the main theories behind the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy is the Sound Relationship House theory. The Gottmans assume that partners can grow closer in a relationship by having a solid foundation of understanding. This foundation begins with safety and builds upon itself to include the goal of creating shared meaning.
Anyone who wants to improve their relationship can benefit from the Gottman Method, including married couples or those in a committed relationship.
The Sound Relationship House theory includes tactics such as knowing one another deeply and creating love maps (details regarding partners personalities, likes, dislikes, etc.), sharing fondness of one another, turning to each other for needs, managing a positive perspective, managing conflict, achieving goals and dreams, and creating shared meaning.
Your counselor will work with you and your partner to develop the necessary skills for relating to each other in a more positive, loving way.
The Gottman Method effectively assists couples in resolving conflict and growing closer together.
Therapists Who Specialize in Using the Gottman Method
I approach therapy through creating a safe and supportive space in which a strong therapeutic relationship can form. Through a genuine partnership I support clients to identify meaningful goals. Working together we can grow to a better understanding of unhelpful life patterns, both inside and out, that leave one feeling distressed and unfulfilled. I use a holistic approach that draws upon a bro...
My approach to therapy is both practical and positive. I work primarily with adults who are looking to make changes in their lives and are unsure of where to begin. I enjoy the process of connecting with my clients, who often experience anxiety/depression, and developing a relationship that supports movement and acceptance. Specializing in addiction and trauma work I incorporate evidence-based...
With over five years as a Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Dr. Guelker has experience treating both children and adults across a variety of environments. Dr. Guelker assists his patients in meeting their own needs for treatment through understanding and goal setting. Dr. Guelker has experience with a variety of concerns including mood (depression, anger, etc.), anxiety, trauma/PTSD, personality...
I work with individual adults and couples. I love working with couples to transform their relationship into something that is a blessing to both individuals. My clients have had success in overcoming infidelity, eliminating conflict and strife, addressing sexual difficulties, and experiencing intimate connection at a deeper level. For those who are hurting in other ways, I have experience helpi...
At Thaxton Holistic Wellness Center it is our mission to create a soothing, client-focused, healing-centered environment, committed to treating you as a whole person. With over 75 years of combined experience, our therapists offer telehealth and in-person individual, couple, family, and group counseling services for all ages and concerns. Supported by years of experience and training, we will w...
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I love what I do and that makes it rewarding for me to work every day with adolescents, adults, couples, and families. In my practice, I work with relationship issues, stress, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, grief and loss, social skills and multicultural issues. I view problems through an attachment lens and utilize multiple therapeutic approaches including narrative, solution-focused,...
I have years of experience counseling with adults, couples, teenagers, and children. I use a thoughtful and respectful approach in understanding concerns and formulating solutions. I draw on a knowledge of biology, psychosocial development, and learning theory as I collaborate with individuals in developing customized intervention plans. In therapy, individuals have an opportunity to carefully...
"We are born in relationship. We grow in relationship. We are wounded in relationship. And we are healed in relationship." - Harville Hendrix. Therapy can benefit us in many ways including feeling heard, growing in self awareness, and healing from adversity life throws at us. It is also a great place to learn compassion for ourselves and empathy for others in our lives. As a therapist, I believ...
Diane Oliver
San Francisco
California
Diane Oliver
San Francisco
California
To schedule your first visit with me, please use this online scheduling link - (https://portal.geneticforesight.com/book) --- Diane Oliver, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, has over 20 years of experience. She will partner with you to explore new solutions to ongoing problems, provide warm, safe, non-judgmental support for emotional relief and offer practical skills to repair and improve...
Not currently accepting new clients. Are you struggling with emotional wounds and detrimental thoughts and behavior patterns? Do you feel disconnected from your loved ones, fearful of the future, or debilitated by self-doubt and shame? My vision, passion, and joy is to aid you on your journey towards wellness, freedom, and fulfillment in your inner world, relationships, and career. We are...
We specialize in Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), which has been scientifically proven to be highly effective for anxiety, depression, and other problems we treat (please see our website for the full list). CBT is the best available drug-free approach for most psychological problems; it is active, solution-focused, and relatively short-term. We work collaboratively with our clients to make r...
I specialize in helping couples and families improve their relationships through improved communication, building family traditions, establishing healthy boundaries, and building unity. I also specialize in treating adolescent anxiety, depression, self-harm, suicidal ideation, mission preparation, and post-mission treatment....
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