John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman founded the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy. The method uses assessments, communication skills, and real-life practices and skills to assist partners in becoming closer to one another.
One of the main theories behind the Gottman Method of Couples Therapy is the Sound Relationship House theory. The Gottmans assume that partners can grow closer in a relationship by having a solid foundation of understanding. This foundation begins with safety and builds upon itself to include the goal of creating shared meaning.
Anyone who wants to improve their relationship can benefit from the Gottman Method, including married couples or those in a committed relationship.
The Sound Relationship House theory includes tactics such as knowing one another deeply and creating love maps (details regarding partners personalities, likes, dislikes, etc.), sharing fondness of one another, turning to each other for needs, managing a positive perspective, managing conflict, achieving goals and dreams, and creating shared meaning.
Your counselor will work with you and your partner to develop the necessary skills for relating to each other in a more positive, loving way.
The Gottman Method effectively assists couples in resolving conflict and growing closer together.
Therapists Who Specialize in Using the Gottman Method
My goal is to provide a safe and comfortable environment for us to work together in managing life's challenges and changes with tools to move towards a better and more meaningful life experience. Also enjoy working with couples/families to build communication skills and understanding, paving the way to more harmonious relationships. Evening and weekend hours available....
I believe therapy can be for anyone. I provide a judgment-free space where you can be yourself while navigating your concerns on your path to growth and change. Common issues that my clients face are overwhelming emotions, difficulty maintaining work-life balance, conflict in relationships, navigating life changes and stressors, and working through past traumas. I have a warm and direct approac...
Hello! I will be accepting new patients on a case by case basis, starting 01/2021. I understand that reaching out for help can be a difficult first step when you feel as though the life you are living is not the one you envisioned having. Perhaps you are struggling with one of your key relationships and you are feeling frustrated, helpless, and hopeless to change. People often face difficulties...
I sincerely believe that people can change. Sometimes we just need help navigating that process. If you are experiencing distress, despair, or maybe just feel lost, I will help you find a solution. My approach involves helping people get unstuck from the destructive traps that we find ourselves in. I can help you tap into your internal strength, tenacity, and motivation. This will empower you t...
Have you been feeling stuck, find yourself preoccupied by certain thoughts or experiences, or feel overwhelmed by your emotions at times? Therapy can offer a safe relationship where you feel heard and understood. Developing insight into your emotions, past experiences, and your decisions empowers you to feel more in control of your life, find the direction you want to take, and eventually live ...
I work with individuals who want to find healing from trauma, relationship and sexual problems, and addiction. I also use my expertise to help couples who are facing these same issues. My clients are typically stuck in behaviors and habits that feel like they help in the moment but later they recognize these behaviors take them further away from who they truly are and their values. I like helpi...
I went into the field of psychology because I love helping people transform to the best version of themselves. We all need a safe place to understand ourselves and how we relate to others. I often say "We need to be Mindful of our Total-Well Being and that our minds and our bodies are an inter-connected systems. Where the mind goes, so does the man or woman in their actions and body states. We ...
******Accepting New Clients*******Practicing since 2005, I work with children and teens, families and individuals and specialize in trauma, attachment, behavioral issues, children's mental health, relationship issues and transitions with the family life cycle. I assess clients and their presenting concerns with a welcoming, non-judgmental , solution-focused approach. My client-centered manner...
Hi, I have come to believe that for many individuals, today's world can be very stressful. Life creates challenges of one kind or another for us. If you are being challenged by life, I can help. I am passionate about my work and build a collaboratative relationship with my clients. I believe that it is important for individuals to learn skills that will help them deal with the problems in their...
My role as a therapist is to help you reach your potential. I work with individuals and couples who want to feel more connected and fulfilled in their relationships. Often what holds people and relationships back is a pattern of unhelpful thoughts, behaviors and interactions. Identifying these patterns and developing strategies to overcome them can empower you to get unstuck and move toward you...
NOT ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS- Hello, I'd like to share a little about myself and my practice.I hold Master's degree in Clinical Psychology with a License as a Mental Health Counselor (LMHC).I am also a 200 hour Registered Yoga Teacher, certified Trauma Sensitive Yoga teacher and Mindfulness/Meditation Instructor. I have experience working with individuals and families with a wide range of mental...
*Immediate virtual openings available!* We are living in such uncertain times. Most of us have never experienced anything like what's going on right now. You may have already been living with financial stress, health issues, or perhaps relationship complications. On top of those things, there’s an unpredictable virus that’s holding us all hostage, as well as political and racial unrest. That’s ...
Life can be difficult at times and often we struggle to navigate those challenging times. Marriage and trauma difficulties, in particular, can be very personal and often leave us feeling extremely confused and lonely. As a therapist I use the Gottman Method Therapy and Emotion Focused Therapy to assist couples. I work with my clients to identify a specific cycle of conflict, identify and expres...
An awakening is emerging as you seek professional counseling. By noticing the personal imbalance within you or with someone you care about, you are paying attention to your deeper intuition. Perhaps the incongruities have to do with depression; anxiety; relationship dissonances; family of origin woundedness; separation and grief; parenting challenges; trauma-related experiences; or wonderment...
Bridget Gray, LPCC-S. is a Professional Counselor focused on working with families, adolescents, individuals and marital/couple issues. She has experience in the treatment of grief and loss, anxiety, depression, personality disorders, attachment disorders, abuse/trauma and stage of life issues. She practices from a Narrative/Cognitive Behavioral Perspective, holding to the belief that the story...
