What is Emotionally Focused Therapy?

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Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is a short-term approach to counseling most often used for couples, but it also works with families and individuals. EFT emphasizes developing a stronger bond between two or more people. It examines interactions and how each individual contributes to undesirable behaviors that negatively affect their emotional bond.

EFT’s goal is to reduce distress and negative patterns in the relationship so people can grow closer and rebuild trust, love, and intimacy.

There are three distinct stages in Emotionally Focused Therapy:

  1. De-Escalation – The therapist has people slow down their conversations and interactions to examine patterns in this stage. Is one person not expressing their emotions? Is one person avoidant? Is one person quick to anger? Your EFT therapist will hone in on these specific exchanges to help you understand what interaction and communication patterns lead to hurt feelings and disconnection.
  2. Changing Interaction Patterns – This stage involves encouraging each person to communicate their feelings and needs. Your therapist will help you express empathy, even during tense interactions.
  3. Consolidation – In this stage, you practice the skills you learned during counseling. This stage aims to integrate more desirable communication patterns in EFT sessions and real life.

Anyone interested in improving their interactions with loved ones could benefit from EFT.

Therapists Who Specialize in Using Emotionally Focused Therapy

Hannah Nsiah, PMHNP-BC

Lakewood

New Jersey

Hello, I am Hannah Nsiah, PMHNP-BC. I provide compassionate, evidence-based mental health care for anxiety, depression, trauma, and behavioral challenges. My approach combines therapy and medication management, using techniques like CBT and mindfulness. Remote telehealth sessions offer convenient, accessible support tailored to your unique needs.

Philippe Bah, DNP,PMHNP-BC

Brooklyn

New York

Elephant Health Services is a community health center with a mission to reduce societal disparities through open access to quality healthcare to all. We use a holistic approach by partnering with patients and families to create tailored care-plans and help solve life challenges which affect our clients’ mental health.

Maureen Owoh, PMHNP-BC

Baltimore

Maryland

I am a board-certified psychiatric mental health nurse practitioner with over ten years of experience in mental health. I create a safe space for patients to express their emotions without fear of judgment.

Clivens Fils, MBA,PMHNP-BC

Portland

Oregon

My practice focuses on providing compassionate, holistic mental health care for adults and seniors. I specialize in treating conditions like anxiety, depression, bipolar disorders, PTSD, ADHD, and more, using evidence-based approaches tailored to each client’s unique needs. Through telehealth services, I offer a safe, accessible space where clients can work toward healing and personal growth. M...