Coping mechanisms, or coping skills, are behaviors that people engage in to help them deal with difficult or stressful situations and emotions. Some can be healthy, but others aren’t.
Available Treatment Options
Therapists and counselors often work with clients to discover what coping mechanisms they’re using and determine if they are helpful. With this information, the person and the therapist can develop different coping mechanisms that are less harmful, such as meditation, exercise, journaling, drawing, or time with family.
Therapists Who Specialize in Helping Those Who Struggle With Coping Skills
( English | español ) My ideal client would be an individual struggling to adapt to new circumstances with old coping skills. A client that wonders why life seems harder now than it had before and they're looking to find someone who can help them understand what they are missing. The client would need someone to show them to help them adopt new skills, gain new insights, and possibly resolve pa...
There are times in our lives when joy seems impossible to attain, sadness and worry seem to rule our lives, our relationships begin to fail and success seems impossible. However, there is a way back to joy. I believe that therapy should be a safe place to explore these emotions so that we can allow joy to flow back into our lives. My goal in therapy is to help you explore healthy coping skills....
OCD and anxiety symptoms don't have to ruin your life. As an anxiety specialist, I am dedicated to helping you overcome your fears, develop a better relationship with your thoughts, and build your resilience to handle obsessions without relying on compulsions. I enjoy empowering people who are tired of their anxiety-imposed limitations and want to be themselves again. CalOCD offers individual,...
We each carry within us our unique wisdom, strength and resiliency that, with the right support, can become to the keys to our personal healing. Yet we all go through periods where life circumstances-- traumas, life transitions, and relationship difficulties-- overwhelm our ability to make sense of our experiences. Perhaps your reactions don't make rational sense to you or your loved ones. Mayb...
I believe that counseling is first and foremost a relationship. As any good relationship is based on trust, so effective counseling is also based on trust. Trust develops when people feel accepted and supported no matter what their circumstances, and when they know the other has their best interests at heart. Honest communication is essential to the therapeutic relationship. For clients this me...
The process of therapy is one of self exploration and self discovery. Many of my clients seek therapy during life transitions or when experiencing relationship challenges. Some suffer from lack of self confidence, or are plagued by anxiety without an understanding of its cause. Through our work together I help people gain insight and understanding about the problems they’re encountering and bec...
Don’t Just Survive, Learn To Thrive. If you are experiencing worry, anxiety, sadness, or trouble with relationships, I can help you overcome and deal with these issues. I have been helping clients with similar issues since 1995. My name is Kay Byerly, and I am a Christian. However, I honor all faiths or lack of faiths. In my 24+ years of experiences, I have found most people talk about their fa...
In my practice, I rely on the wisdom of both Eastern and Western healing modalities to promote holistic wellness for individuals, teens and couples in Santa Barbara, and throughout California via video sessions. My goal is to support clients as they seek to heal past hurts, create meaning around their experiences and grow into an authentic expression of who they truly are meant to be. Together,...
Do you want to go beyond fear and find freedom within yourself? Do you suffer from emotional pain, anxiety, or depression? Have you been feeling alone and don’t know where to go from here? Let me help you to overcome these thoughts and feelings. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Qualified Supervisor and have spent the last 9 years working in the mental health and substance abuse field...
As a psychotherapist, it is very important to me to create a safe space where you feel seen and understood. I strongly believe that a compassionate relationship is truly healing, empowering people to make changes in their lives, especially in the parts where they feel stuck. It is my aim to work with you with tools that will help you reflect on and process your thoughts and emotions. As we expl...
I believe that one of the most powerful things in the world is to feel seen, heard, cared for, and understood. It is my goal to help each person who walks through my door to feel these things. I also believe that there is hope in any situation. I work with individuals 6 years old and up. I use a blend of approaches including CBT, DBT, and play therapy based off what works best for you or your...
Sometimes in life you find yourself feeling lost, disoriented and wondering how you got to this challenging place. You may find it difficult to even catch your breath. These feelings may lead to anxiety, depression, and other transition and relationship difficulties. Therapy, in my view, is a refuge from these places - a place to unpack all of your thoughts, be heard, feel understood and learn ...
Often we find ourselves waiting. Waiting to be well, to be cared for, and to care for ourselves. The challenges we face, however big or small, are often opportunities to form a deeper connection to the things we want. Psychotherapy offers an experience to create an open space so that you can begin to explore and practice the thoughts, behaviors, and feelings that we seek to experience when work...
At different points in our life, we all need support. No matter what you are going through, it is okay to seek that support. Therapy is a brave first step. Through my authenticity, empathy, and compassion, I provide a safe space for exploration and growth. I sincerely look forward to supporting and empowering you through this process. My training is in Integrative Systemic Therapy and I do not...
Life can be hard and full of challenges. I believe every person deserves the revelatory experience of therapy to make the journey a little easier. My passion is helping clients strengthen and nurture their most important relationship - the one with themselves. I want you to know and like yourself so that you may foster deeper and more meaningful relationships with those who are important to you...
