What is Reality Therapy?

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Reality Therapy states that individuals, not mental health issues, are responsible for their actions and behavior. People make choices that help them get their needs met, but some of these choices are unhelpful, leading to poor relationships skills and ways of relating to others. The therapist’s goal is to motivate individuals to take responsibility for their choices and behavior.

Counselors traditionally use Reality Therapy in prisons and schools. They can use it for individuals, couples, or groups.

Some mental health professionals claim Reality Therapy doesn’t validate mental health diagnoses.

Motivation, behavior, choices, and action are core components in Reality Therapy. Your therapist might help you understand each of these concepts and how they apply to your life. Therapists often spend time asking clients what their needs are. These can range from small things, such as desiring to rid yourself of a bad habit, to larger-scale issues, such as wanting to get your needs more fully met by your partner. Your therapist will help you decide what behaviors can more efficiently get your needs met.

Much of Reality Therapy involves identifying how your behavior, thus far, hasn’t been helpful. Once you gain this understanding, you will be more likely to make choices that align with getting your needs met in healthy, positive ways.

Therapists Who Specialize in Using Reality Therapy

Erika L Thrower

Phoenix

Arizona

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Laura has been working in the mental health field with children, adolescents, and families for over 10 years. She believes that there is a therapist out there for everyone, you just have to find your right fit. Laura specializes in trauma, grief and loss as well as working with children (as young as 2 years old), pre-teens, adolescents, adults and families in a wide variety of other areas. Laur...
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Wendy Gibbs

Gainesville

Florida

I provide therapy for individuals, couples, families, and groups of all orientations, from preteens to elders. I am a trained EMDR therapist and have a passion to care for patients who are the survivors or witnesses of sexual, physical, and emotional abuse. I provide assessment, diagnosis, treatment, and coordination of care for a range of mental health challenges including: PTSD, mood disorder...
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Marie Mercado

Brooklyn

New York

Clinical psychologist and native NYer located in Greenpoint, BK. I know how hard it is to find an active and mindful therapist who truly appreciates your troubles and your strengths, and who can also help you make effective life changes. Based upon your needs, I tailor our work to get you unstuck and feeling empowered, resilient, healthy and strong. My integrative style is effective for adults ...

Philip Darien Montgomery

Chicago

Illinois

I know there is a way to feel better. I hope clients will come to me for options. I look at each client with an open mind seeing possibilities. Together we can begin a journey that will lead to change. I work with individuals, families, and adolescents. I understand the difficulties facing those in law enforcement. I understand young men growing up trying to become men. I offer therapy to those...
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I aim to exude a high level of sensitivity to an individual's circumstances, environment, and cultural factors, along with my passion for and commitment to social issues. My ability to provide an accurate developmental model from which to work includes a more comprehensive perspective that helps me develop appropriate and insightful care. I truly believe that depression is treatable and most...

Shelley Anderson Gender Therapy

Jacksonville

Florida

Your teen dresses and acts like the opposite gender. You think it’s just a phase. You think they’re just trying to fit in. You’re just not sure. You want to know where YOU went wrong. Give yourself a break. It's not you. I can help. I walk alongside teens to uncover their true, authentic selves. E-mail to schedule a 15-minute, complimentary consultation today....
***Not currently accepting clients* Are you an over-stressed college student? A twenty-something trying to figure out your life path? Dealing with stress and anxiety? Reaching out for help is a brave act. I am here to help. I specialize in working with young adults as they navigate life's ups and downs. I tailor my approach based upon my client's unique needs and utilize EMDR, Cognitive Behavio...

Reico Hopewell; LADAAC II

Knoxville

Tennessee

Hello, my name is Reico Hopewell and I am the owner of Hopewell A&D Counseling. I have over 50,000 hours of clinical experience and lived experiences as well. I am a Substance Abuse Professional, Nationally Certified Addictions Counselor, Licensed Alcohol &Drug Abuse Counselor and Certified Peer Recovery Specialist. I would love to serve you, a friend or a family member. I am qualified to...
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