Reality Therapy states that individuals, not mental health issues, are responsible for their actions and behavior. People make choices that help them get their needs met, but some of these choices are unhelpful, leading to poor relationships skills and ways of relating to others. The therapist’s goal is to motivate individuals to take responsibility for their choices and behavior.
Counselors traditionally use Reality Therapy in prisons and schools. They can use it for individuals, couples, or groups.
Some mental health professionals claim Reality Therapy doesn’t validate mental health diagnoses.
Motivation, behavior, choices, and action are core components in Reality Therapy. Your therapist might help you understand each of these concepts and how they apply to your life. Therapists often spend time asking clients what their needs are. These can range from small things, such as desiring to rid yourself of a bad habit, to larger-scale issues, such as wanting to get your needs more fully met by your partner. Your therapist will help you decide what behaviors can more efficiently get your needs met.
Much of Reality Therapy involves identifying how your behavior, thus far, hasn’t been helpful. Once you gain this understanding, you will be more likely to make choices that align with getting your needs met in healthy, positive ways.
Therapists Who Specialize in Using Reality Therapy
Struggling with anxiety, depression, or feel like you need to change something in your life? Have you felt alone and don't know who to talk to? When you confide in friends and family do you feel like they say what you want to hear or tell you to get over it? Sometimes an empathetic, nonjudgmental, outside ear can help. The first step is reaching out, then together we can get you on the path...
I have more than 15 years of experience in counseling and case management, and I enjoy empowering and lifting up each person I am privileged to serve. My office is a safe, confidential space where we can work together to build a treatment plan that is the best fit for you. I utilize several approaches in my sessions, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and solution-based therapy, all w...
“I believe that anyone can make a change, however, it will take work, perseverance and sometimes outside help. As a therapist, I see my role as that outside help, a facilitator of change. As a tenacious and creative psychotherapist, I use a variety of modalities to assist clients in making positive change.” As a therapist I am a generalist. I have worked with children, youth, adults, families a...
Deciding to make real life change is hard. It would be my pleasure to assist you in gaining clarity, insight and direction to fully embark on the next chapter. The ideal client is anyone who seeks to become a better version of themselves. I believe that change starts with our thoughts, and once we change our thoughts our behaviors will follow suit. I can help you gain insight into your challeng...
Life can throw you in different directions but you don't have to do it alone. I am a warm and dedicated therapist interested in your holistic well-being. I specialize in anxiety, life-transitions, depression, relationship issues, job performance, and low self-esteem. We will work together in digging through the rubbles of life's complexities and lead a journey of finding peace within. As a...
I have over 27 years of clinical social work experience providing services to adolescents, adults and families in a variety of inpatient and outpatient settings. My current practice mainly focuses on treating adjustment and mood disorders, recovery from trauma, stress reduction, couple therapy, life transition and aging issues. I favor a holistic approach and use a variety of therapeutic...
I believe that every person can live a successful, healthy and joyful life. I empower families and individuals to overcome personal obstacles which leads to fulfilling relationships and peace. I graduated with a Master of Arts in Professional Counseling and School Counseling from Central Michigan University. I have been practicing as a licensed mental health counselor for over 4 years. I enjoy...
At Sanctuary Counseling Group, we believe in creating therapeutic relationships with our clients that promote the healing of heart, mind & soul. Becoming a parent can be an exciting time, filled with hope and plans for the future. Yet, what often goes unspoken is how common feelings of fear, doubt & uncertainty will be. I enjoy collaborating with pregnant & postpartum women & their families on...
Libby is an Provisionally Licensed Mental Health Counselor. She holds a masters degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and an additional masters in Addiction Counseling. Libby sees children, adolescents, adults, and the elderly....
**I currently am not taking on any new clients** I love working with clients who are seeking a low pressure, warm, and sometimes humorous environment to work through some challenges that might be holding them back from their full potential. I work with children (3+), adolescents and adults looking to improve areas of their lives from experiencing life transitions, all the way to processing deep...
Are you seeking relief from relationship stress, trauma, sexual abuse (men & women), domestic violence, intimate partner abuse (men & women), infidelity, emotional abuse, etc.? Do you feel emotionally abandoned, lonely, sad, angry, resentful, maybe just a lack of satisfaction in your relationship, unfaithful partner or spouse, possibly feeling guilty over your own affair and feeling helpless or...
Dr. Devaraj is passionate about working with clients with addictions, including eating disorders. She has done extensive postgraduate training in counseling and addictions through a series of courses, institutes, research, workshops, and seminars. She has become an advocate for maternal mental health and hopes to help people better understand postpartum depression. Although Dr. Devaraj uses an...
Dr. Green is an award winning psychologist and a nationally recognized researcher. She is a Professor of Psychology and Behavioral Neuroscience at Cornell College and the Director of the Cornell College Eating Disorder Institute In her part-time private practice, Dr. Green treats clients with a variety of presenting concerns including eating disorders, anxiety disorders, depression, substance...
If you are reading this, chances are, you’ve tried just about everything and still feel angry, depressed, lonely, and overwhelmed. My therapeutic style is dynamic, genuine, and straight forward. My aim is to help you set realistic goals, identify unhealthy patterns, and understand the underlying causes of your thoughts, feelings, and actions. Many of my clients have reported reduced panic attac...
Our lives today are busy and often overwhelming. Struggling with mental health symptoms complicates the process of managing our daily routines and responsibilities, and frequently people struggle in silence, due to fears of being judged. Mental health issues do not have to keep people from achieving their personal goals and living their best lives. Just as people with substance use struggles sp...
