Reality Therapy states that individuals, not mental health issues, are responsible for their actions and behavior. People make choices that help them get their needs met, but some of these choices are unhelpful, leading to poor relationships skills and ways of relating to others. The therapist’s goal is to motivate individuals to take responsibility for their choices and behavior.
Counselors traditionally use Reality Therapy in prisons and schools. They can use it for individuals, couples, or groups.
Some mental health professionals claim Reality Therapy doesn’t validate mental health diagnoses.
Motivation, behavior, choices, and action are core components in Reality Therapy. Your therapist might help you understand each of these concepts and how they apply to your life. Therapists often spend time asking clients what their needs are. These can range from small things, such as desiring to rid yourself of a bad habit, to larger-scale issues, such as wanting to get your needs more fully met by your partner. Your therapist will help you decide what behaviors can more efficiently get your needs met.
Much of Reality Therapy involves identifying how your behavior, thus far, hasn’t been helpful. Once you gain this understanding, you will be more likely to make choices that align with getting your needs met in healthy, positive ways.
Therapists Who Specialize in Using Reality Therapy
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I am here to motivate, engage, and instill hope to guide you along your journey. We will work together towards the goals we set throughout our sessions. I am a bilingual therapist speaking English and Greek. My multicultural background gives me an open mind and empathetic understanding when working with my clients. My therapeutic techniques vary depending on the needs of each client. My educati...
Everyone faces challenges in life and sometimes we are in need of answers and guidance. Children, teens, adults and even couples all face these challenges. You really have all the answers to face these challenges. My name is Steven Riley and I am a Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of North Carolina. I am also a Licensed Clinical Addiction Specialist Associate. I am here to guide you...
I believe that each of us is a multi-talented, multi-faceted, creative being of pure light and infinite potential! This being true, I know many of us have forgotten this long ago. I did! In forgetting who we truly are, we find ourselves trapped in limitation, living a life we do not really want but hoping it will one-day payoff. A life of depression, shame, and anxiety is the payoff most settle...
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with over ten years of clinical experience. I work with adult individuals, adolescents, children, couples and families, using a variety of therapeutic techniques. I have vast experience working with issues related to trauma, depression, bipolar disorder, personality disorders, anger management, mood disorders, anxiety, employment and work place problems, a...
Are you having trouble navigating difficult times? Do you struggle with depression or anxiety? Are you powerless over substances? Has life become overwhelming? If so, I can help. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor that uses empirically tested treatment modalities to assist in the unpacking and healing of emotional baggage and pain. If you or a loved one, are looking to relieve emotional str...
You may feel desperate, alone, and misunderstood. You feel like you are floating in the bottom of a lake and cannot see the light above you. Everyday, you feel like you are just going through the motions. If this describes you, then I may be the therapist for you. In my ten years of experience, I have helped people like you reach their potential and achieve the recovery that they needed. There ...
I provide assistance to individuals who are looking to proactively and constructively manage life challenges and stressors, along with supporting them emotionally along their journey. I believe that developing an emotionally strong intellect and psyche is the basis to having a happy, well-adjusted life. Having a mind-set of empowerment is the focus of my counseling and I believe it is important...
**Free Phone Counseling or Testing Consultation** Being in the circus taught me that juggling too many balls in the air can lead to feeling like you're always picking up the pieces rather than enjoying the show. We can get so caught up in the routine of life that we don't stop to ask, "How did things get this way and is this what I want moving forward?" I seek to improve self-awareness of one's...
I'm ready, are you to make time for you & your wellbeing? I find that individuals who seek me out, often experience anxiety, panic attacks, depression, substance use & some are working on life transitions. While causes can seem unknown or sudden, exploring acute or chronic stressful events can provide insight, self-awareness & change. If this sounds like you, I look forward to hearing from you!...
“The person is not the problem, the problem is the problem.” At times you may feel bogged down by problems like stress, anxiety, depression, substance abuse, or relationship issues. You are not alone in feeling like these problems have become a part of your identity or your relationships. Whether you are struggling with life transitions such as graduating college or getting a divorce, or you fe...
As a practicing psychotherapist since 1992, I have the honor of assisting clients with the emotional issues that create obstacles and/or roadblocks in all areas of their lives. My compassionate and caring approach is solution-focused and action-oriented, and I believe all clients have the capacity for change within themselves. Clients willing to engage in the emotion and thought based therapeut...
Built on trust and honesty, a strong therapeutic alliance allows appropriate insight into another's life and situation. Tamara enjoys working with both teens and adults. Her treatment scope includes stress management, coping with anxiety, combating depression, and alleviating helplessness and hopelessness....
