Reality Therapy states that individuals, not mental health issues, are responsible for their actions and behavior. People make choices that help them get their needs met, but some of these choices are unhelpful, leading to poor relationships skills and ways of relating to others. The therapist’s goal is to motivate individuals to take responsibility for their choices and behavior.
Counselors traditionally use Reality Therapy in prisons and schools. They can use it for individuals, couples, or groups.
Some mental health professionals claim Reality Therapy doesn’t validate mental health diagnoses.
Motivation, behavior, choices, and action are core components in Reality Therapy. Your therapist might help you understand each of these concepts and how they apply to your life. Therapists often spend time asking clients what their needs are. These can range from small things, such as desiring to rid yourself of a bad habit, to larger-scale issues, such as wanting to get your needs more fully met by your partner. Your therapist will help you decide what behaviors can more efficiently get your needs met.
Much of Reality Therapy involves identifying how your behavior, thus far, hasn’t been helpful. Once you gain this understanding, you will be more likely to make choices that align with getting your needs met in healthy, positive ways.
Therapists Who Specialize in Using Reality Therapy
I believe in supporting and guiding clients to find their own answers, using a holistic, supportive, and integrated approach that encompasses the mind, body, and spirit. Through personal growth and development, we can learn to change our destiny and replenish our positive energy. The need for clarity is often the first step towards healing, fulfillment, and new realms of understanding. It is...
Experience more than counseling... Experience your life journey through transformational self-discovery! Are you coping with feelings of anxiety, depression, and/or anger? Are your marital issues so serious that you believe that you cannot carry on? Are you grieving the loss of a loved one? Is your teenager exhibiting difficult behaviors? Are you feeling burned out at work, searching for...
I accept as true that life is about making appropriate changes. If you are having difficulties while struggling with life changes in relationships, depression, anxiety, sadness, grief, past trauma, or have issues with a family member, I would like to assist you to sort things out and renew your perspective. My goal is to bring you back to focus on what is important in your life and to help you...
Stressed out? Anxious? Overwhelmed? Unhappy? Unfulfilled in your relationships or friendships? Ready to feel happy & confident again? Let's figure out who you are and what you really want out of life. We will work together to reach your goals. My expertise gained through 15+ years experience using evidenced based therapies with a modern solution focused approach will help us get to the root of ...
Life is full of transitions. They can be extremely difficult. It can be easy to feel overwhelmed, discouraged and like nothing will improve. Transition can be even more overwhelming when it feels like you are going through it alone and don't have support. I utilize a client-centered, strengths based approach, and provide a compassionate and accepting environment. I can help provide you a safe...
Living in the fast pace of today's society many individuals, families and couples are juggling a wide range of issues. Are you tired of feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, and depressed? Are you having a hard time focusing and making decisions because you feel unsure and lack motivation? I am a therapist that believes that you can be a better you and the best you. I will assist you in developing...
I have been practicing in Oregon since 1985. I am very open, honest and interactive. I enjoy what I do and to see clients being empowered to make a difference for themselves in their lives, is my reward. I am bilingual and speak Farsi. I have worked with individuals, couples, families and teenagers of all cultures. Being culturally different has given me a more of a perspective to allow more...
Life doesn't have to suck all the time. I'm not saying that therapy can make your life the greatest in the world, but it can help you work through the experiences in your life that are hard to cope with. Sometimes it helps to talk to someone who is not close to the problem and who has no idea who we are so that we can say things that we would not usually say to those closest to us so that we ar...
"Life can hand us difficult times and challenging situations. A counselor can help you reduce stress, anger and depressive thoughts as well as help you develop coping strategies that will serve you well the rest of your life." My clients typically include those who have been challenged by stress, anxiety, frustration or anger from personal, work or relationship situations. In our work together,...
Brighter Futures Counseling provides therapy services to children and families, including Early Childhood, Children, and Adolescents as well as their families. We provide individual, family, & group counseling as well as Parenting Classes and the Batterer's Intervention Program (BIP) for Domestic Violence. We will work with each person to find the right therapist for you. Our therapists are...
Are you overwhelmed and stuck? Is your marriage, children, work, and family relationships, or addiction dominating your life? Do you suffer from PTSD? Hope and help is waiting for you. I am passionate about the opportunity to help get you on the right path, going in the right direction. I work with adult/teen individuals, couples, and families. I specialize in Trauma related issues (PTSD) and h...
Have you or a family member experienced trauma? Are the transitions in life causing depression or anxiety? Is your child exhibiting negative behaviors, sleep disturbance, difficulty navigating a divorce? Children operate 100% of the time on emotions while adult brains operate on rationality. Because children operate on emotions it affects their abilities to use effective decision-making skills ...
We are an established and well regarded group practice offering counseling and psychiatric services to our clients. We have 2 locations to meet our client needs.. Our experienced providers have a variety of specialties and utilize Cognitive Behavioral Therapy as well as other treatment approaches. We are pleased to offer Individual, Marriage and Family Counseling as well as Medication Managemen...
I am a psychotherapist with a holistic and spiritual approach to counseling and coaching; I offer in person and teletherapy services for the treatment of anxiety, depression, women's issues, self esteem, life transitions, with an emphasis on the role of spirituality in healing. My style is warm, supportive, and focuses in on your strengths to empower you to live your best life. Teletherapy for...
Sometimes you might find that the relationships in your life just aren't living up to your expectations. Maybe it's the relationship with your significant other or with your boss or coworkers. It could be with friends or family members that you find the relationships missing something crucial. Perhaps the relationship you have with yourself is the one that's critical and condescending. I believ...