Reality Therapy states that individuals, not mental health issues, are responsible for their actions and behavior. People make choices that help them get their needs met, but some of these choices are unhelpful, leading to poor relationships skills and ways of relating to others. The therapist’s goal is to motivate individuals to take responsibility for their choices and behavior.
Counselors traditionally use Reality Therapy in prisons and schools. They can use it for individuals, couples, or groups.
Some mental health professionals claim Reality Therapy doesn’t validate mental health diagnoses.
Motivation, behavior, choices, and action are core components in Reality Therapy. Your therapist might help you understand each of these concepts and how they apply to your life. Therapists often spend time asking clients what their needs are. These can range from small things, such as desiring to rid yourself of a bad habit, to larger-scale issues, such as wanting to get your needs more fully met by your partner. Your therapist will help you decide what behaviors can more efficiently get your needs met.
Much of Reality Therapy involves identifying how your behavior, thus far, hasn’t been helpful. Once you gain this understanding, you will be more likely to make choices that align with getting your needs met in healthy, positive ways.
Therapists Who Specialize in Using Reality Therapy
Drawing from extensive experience, I strive to assist my clients in identifying and improving in the areas of their lives where they are struggling. My specialties include anxiety, depression, anger management, communication skills, establishing/building relationships and problem solving. I provide individual and couples therapies. I offer tele-health video sessions. I am in network and I accep...
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I am a compassionate, empathetic, engaging and challenging therapist. I utilize the many disciplines I have integrated over the almost 30 years of practicing as a Licensed, Marriage, Family therapist. I am also a Certified Addiction Specialist #C-4020. I tailor treatment to each individual, couple, and family. I will help guide you on your journey of change. I wrote the first book on Attention...
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I work with clients of all ages, genders, sexual preferences and cultural backgrounds. I specialize in working with children and adolescents along with families in an integrated approach. In terms of therapeutic technique and strategy, one size definitely does not fit all. I tailor my theoretical method to match the client in the moment. I go into each and every relationship with the expectatio...
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Hello, my name is John Mckeithen, LPC, LADC. My counseling experience ranges from treating adults, adolescents and families. I am a Certified Reality Therapist, Licensed Alcohol and Drug Counselor and Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Connecticut. I am an experienced Mental Health and Addictions Counselor. I provide psychotherapy services to individuals, couples and families I tak...