Reality Therapy states that individuals, not mental health issues, are responsible for their actions and behavior. People make choices that help them get their needs met, but some of these choices are unhelpful, leading to poor relationships skills and ways of relating to others. The therapist’s goal is to motivate individuals to take responsibility for their choices and behavior.
Counselors traditionally use Reality Therapy in prisons and schools. They can use it for individuals, couples, or groups.
Some mental health professionals claim Reality Therapy doesn’t validate mental health diagnoses.
Motivation, behavior, choices, and action are core components in Reality Therapy. Your therapist might help you understand each of these concepts and how they apply to your life. Therapists often spend time asking clients what their needs are. These can range from small things, such as desiring to rid yourself of a bad habit, to larger-scale issues, such as wanting to get your needs more fully met by your partner. Your therapist will help you decide what behaviors can more efficiently get your needs met.
Much of Reality Therapy involves identifying how your behavior, thus far, hasn’t been helpful. Once you gain this understanding, you will be more likely to make choices that align with getting your needs met in healthy, positive ways.
Therapists Who Specialize in Using Reality Therapy
I am comfortable working with people of every age, from school children to elders, from diverse social, economic, ethnic, and cultural backgrounds. Most of the clients I see on a regular basis are working to better handle depression, anxiety, anger, trauma, or family and relationship problems. While I naturally gravitate toward Cognitive Behavior Therapy, I have an understanding of, and am...
I have been working within a medical pediatric practice for the duration of my career, and as a result see a number of children and adolescents. Treatment with this population generally focuses on developmental, behavioral, academic, social, and family issues. I also see a number of adults on an outpatient basis and greatly value this aspect of my practice as well. Anxiety, depression, loss, an...
Come in and relax, take the time to care for yourself. Bring to session what's on your mind, whatever would be helpful for us to talk about. My practice is supportive collaboration until you are feeling better and more in control of your life. Everyone is fighting a hard battle. I hope to help you feel empowered, recognize your strengths and skills. Together we can assess where you are at in yo...
I believe that most people who see a counselor are not psychologically abnormal. My clients are having normal reactions to a complex, stressful, ever-changing world. No matter the problem, people cope in the best way they know how. My job is simply to help you become more effective in your coping. Because so many people have busy schedules, I provide services in the evenings so that my clients...
I have been in private practice for the past forty years working with individuals, couples and groups. Presently I am a relationship specialist for both couples and singles, specializing in infidelity and communication issues. I teach skill-based love because without good communication and conflict resolution skills, people act out with affairs rather than acting in and talking. I love working...
Are you feeling anxious, depressed, angry or stuck? Are you experiencing issues with your relationships: marriage, family, friends, or career? Are you having difficulty making decisions? Is fear, lack of motivation or sabotaging behaviors getting in the way of your true potential? Does the fear of letting go and creating something new feel uncomfortable or impossible? If you have answered "Yes"...
I am an active, goal-oriented therapist with over 20 years of experience. My approach is eclectic and flexible to meet the needs of each client. My goal is to help my clients gain new perspectives and skills to master life's many challenges. I also provide Qualified Clinical Supervision for Mental Health Counseling Interns in Florida. I am skilled in helping individuals and couples improve...
Take charge of your life...manage communications, thinking, emotions, behaviors and goals! When you and I meet in session, it will be a unique experience designed to meet what works for your needs and goals. I view each person in a holistic framework that encompasses cognitive, emotional, physical, and spiritual aspects. The goal of our work together is to achieve a sense of balance in your lif...
Parenting is hard! Your kid did NOT come with a manual & things can become overwhelming before you know it. You want what is best for your child; you don't want them to hurt, you want to keep them safe, & be happy, but do you find yourself feeling like somewhere you got disconnected & now you don't know what else to do? You've tried to talk, you've tried to discipline, you've lost your patience...
I treat children, adolescents, couples and families (from ages 6 to 60) .There are many problems affecting children, adolescents, families and couples today. The stress of contemporary life sometimes becomes overwhelming and can result in anxiety, depression, sleep disturbances, alcohol and other addictive issues, marital conflict, infidelity, sibling conflict and financial concerns. My...
I deal with depression, anxiety, stress, panic, low self-esteem, or relationship problems. Have been practicing for thirty years. I know how to help people change their patterns, emotions, and distressing thoughts. I believe in human resilience, capacity and desire to move on to a better life. I try various modalities to assist you. Have recently hired an associate, Nina Nagy, a Somatic and Tra...
Do you feel overwhelmed? Stuck? The decision to enter counseling takes motivation and courage to explore issues that are problematic. Talking to someone new can be difficult, especially when you have never attended therapy or have had a negative experience. Therapy will provide you with a unique opportunity to self-explore. My experience as a therapist includes providing counseling services to...
"A Journey of a Thousand Miles Begins with One Step." LAO TZU I provide a safe, respectful space allowing you to work through your goals. With more than 12 years of therapeutic experience in the areas of trauma, anxiety, depression, sexuality, adjustment, grief, parenting, family dynamics and childhood disorders, I help my clients identify root causes, develop healthy coping skills and master ...
I specialize in building relationships: helping parents get more cooperation and compliance from their children with less energy; helping couples beat the odds to stay happily married; and helping all types of artists connect to their creativity. My clients appreciate creativity and honest communication, value our relationship and time together and are hopeful about the future. They understand...
( English | español ) Corona virus anxiety? ONLINE & phone sessions. Fees are tax deductible donations. News causing stress? More conflict at home? Let me help you to navigate this difficult time, manage your self care, find ways to meet your social needs, and restore some peace and order in your home and family. You can have this. I want to work with you to find the relief and answers you need...
