What is Reality Therapy?

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Reality Therapy states that individuals, not mental health issues, are responsible for their actions and behavior. People make choices that help them get their needs met, but some of these choices are unhelpful, leading to poor relationships skills and ways of relating to others. The therapist’s goal is to motivate individuals to take responsibility for their choices and behavior.

Counselors traditionally use Reality Therapy in prisons and schools. They can use it for individuals, couples, or groups.

Some mental health professionals claim Reality Therapy doesn’t validate mental health diagnoses.

Motivation, behavior, choices, and action are core components in Reality Therapy. Your therapist might help you understand each of these concepts and how they apply to your life. Therapists often spend time asking clients what their needs are. These can range from small things, such as desiring to rid yourself of a bad habit, to larger-scale issues, such as wanting to get your needs more fully met by your partner. Your therapist will help you decide what behaviors can more efficiently get your needs met.

Much of Reality Therapy involves identifying how your behavior, thus far, hasn’t been helpful. Once you gain this understanding, you will be more likely to make choices that align with getting your needs met in healthy, positive ways.

Therapists Who Specialize in Using Reality Therapy

Mindy L Feather

Portland

Oregon

My goal is to give kids a safe place to explore their thoughts and feelings and then empower their caregivers with information and insight into their child's experience. I can also provide supportive techniques for caregivers in filial therapy and attachment methods which include playful activities that help you enjoy parenting again. I am passionate about treating children with anxiety and tra...

Rachael Renshaw

Louisville

Kentucky

What part of your life is the source of feelings of depression, anxiety, low self esteem, or moodiness? It can be difficult to develop a level of self awareness in which we can distinguish the root cause of having poor quality of life. I specializes in Cognitive Behavioral therapy which is geared towards aiding individuals in developing a self awareness of unhealthy thinking habits that hinder...
My experience has been working with diverse populations, children, couples and families who are facing barriers that impact their quality of life. Whether it is anxiety, depression, divorce or co-parenting challenges, let's explore how to improve the way you engage life! Focus areas include: Child / Teens, Couples and Families, Faith-based and Women's Issues. Educating people from minority grou...

Jennifer Pitman

San Antonio

Texas

Life has its challenges and can create difficulties for anyone. Counseling can help provide tools to get through those times and resolve issues that are in the way of your goals. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor who became a part of mental health community services 20 years ago providing outpatient treatment to children and adolescents who are facing anxiety, mood disorders, depression,...
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As a seasoned professional with more than 20 years of clinical practice, I have built a reputation of being a supportive and nurturing clinician who teaches life skills for managing difficult life transitions. I work with individuals, teens and families on some of the most challenging life issues. My practice incorporates teaching, spirituality and personal strengths to develop the tools necess...
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Tara McDaniel

Charlotte

North Carolina

Coping with life's stressors and uncertainties can be a strong undertaking. Even stronger are people who trust the therapeutic process to help guide them through their struggles. No matter what obstacles you are facing, know that you have the ability to rise above them. You should also know that you do not have to face your circumstances alone and that you deserve to live a fulfilling and...
I seek to help individuals, couples and families in finding the path to their best life by coping with issues of depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress, postpartum depression, substance use disorders, career counseling, fertility issues, grief and loss, chronic pain and/or chronic illness like cancer, diabetes, and autoimmune disorders. My goal is to help all clients find their path and the...
I work with couples, individuals, adolescents and families covering a wide range of emotional, behavioral and relationship issues. I strive to provide a comfortable and supportive environment in which people feel safe to explore issues that keep them locked in destructive patterns. My work style is highly personalized and tailored to the individual needs of people to support insight and persona...
If you're searching to know your authentic self, explore the full picture, and gain insight from an objective perspective, consider working with me as I believe that true change occurs when a person leans into the uncomfortable, and challenges their blind spots with honesty, personal reflection, and acceptance. I have served in the military for 15 years and work closely with service members,...
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