What is Reality Therapy?

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Reality Therapy states that individuals, not mental health issues, are responsible for their actions and behavior. People make choices that help them get their needs met, but some of these choices are unhelpful, leading to poor relationships skills and ways of relating to others. The therapist’s goal is to motivate individuals to take responsibility for their choices and behavior.

Counselors traditionally use Reality Therapy in prisons and schools. They can use it for individuals, couples, or groups.

Some mental health professionals claim Reality Therapy doesn’t validate mental health diagnoses.

Motivation, behavior, choices, and action are core components in Reality Therapy. Your therapist might help you understand each of these concepts and how they apply to your life. Therapists often spend time asking clients what their needs are. These can range from small things, such as desiring to rid yourself of a bad habit, to larger-scale issues, such as wanting to get your needs more fully met by your partner. Your therapist will help you decide what behaviors can more efficiently get your needs met.

Much of Reality Therapy involves identifying how your behavior, thus far, hasn’t been helpful. Once you gain this understanding, you will be more likely to make choices that align with getting your needs met in healthy, positive ways.

Therapists Who Specialize in Using Reality Therapy

Anne E Wiggins

Charlotte

North Carolina

I am a mental health professional with 10 years of experience, specializing in working with all ages during stressful times. I assist with bringing oneself back to independence and improving self worth through movement therapy, solution focused CBT, reality based therapy, and structure. When you feel out of control or disappointed, I am here to assist you with finding peace of mind. I can provi...
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Jim Compton

Fort Collins

Colorado

I am a therapist specializing in the use of a mindfulness-based solution-focused approach to help people have a different relationship with life's challenging problems. I am experienced working with individuals experiencing emotional and relational challenges. Many of my clients have issues with addictions, stress, depression and anxiety. I work with adults living in CO and GA either in person ...

Barbara Herring

Los Angeles

California

Seeking out therapy is a very heroic action in and of itself, perhaps your first proactive step into redefining your sense of self, creating a new life story, and taking a leap into the direction of self-care. If you are reading this, you may be in a state of uncertainty, or perhaps connected more deeply than you would like to be to the effects of depression, anxiety, or your daily life...
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I do my best work with young adults who are struggling with severe anxiety and/or depression, coping with trauma from childhood, and are finding it difficult to move on in life. When you're suffering and unable to move forward, life can feel impossible to manage. With support, you can become your best self and have a successful start to adulthood - learning to lead a healthy adult life. You...
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As a therapist with over 15 years of experience I am honored to work with individuals each day that are open to create change and make choices that allow opportunities for growth. My approach to therapy begins with meeting you where you are at in your life by creating a safe, supported, strengths focused, and non-judgmental space to work on identifying opportunities and barriers. Together, we c...

Sherry L. Bartels

Sioux Falls

South Dakota

I am a Qualified Mental Health Professional, Licensed Professional Counselor - Mental Health, Licensed Addiction Counselor, Approved Clinical Supervisor, Approved Supervisor Status, and National Certified Counselor. I have over 30 years of experience in working with individuals, couples, and families (children, adolescents and adults). I have also provided counseling and education to healthcare...
Life isn't perfect and things happen. As your therapist, I can assist you in being comfortable with the uncomfortable and overcoming life's obstacles. You truly do not have to do this alone. Lets focus on the solution and not only the problem. Lets help you take control of your life again! I individualize my therapeutic approach to meet each of my client’s personal needs. I offer a safe,...
You are tired of struggling. Self-doubt, anxiety and sadness serve as internal barriers to functioning in more healthy ways. Tremendous uncertainty can feel paralyzing and you have trouble coping with change. If you no longer want to be fearful but are caught in repetitive patterns, conflict, and emotional pain, know that there is hope and you are not alone. As your therapist, I am your instrum...
Are you going through a difficult time of loss or upheaval and change? Do you have strained or troubled relationships, painful or difficult thoughts or emotions? Are you looking to be more creative or maybe just seeking to live a more fulfilling life? I work with clients to help them live and love with increased creativity and insight. I offer targeted, evidence-based therapy to help those with...
For any relationship to work you must be able to communicate. Marriage can be tough. I help people communicate and manage their conflict. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, serving North Carolina since 2003. I provide marriage, premarital, individual counseling for adults. I see people with a variety of therapeutic concerns including, but not limited to, trauma, depression, anxiety,...

Craig A Carpenter

Oklahoma City

Oklahoma

My goal is to provide tools & treatment to get through life utilizing evidence-based treatment. I have treated a variety of issues ranging from career guidance/lifestyle adjustments to mood/trauma disorders. Working together towards your goals is my priority and together we can achieve those goals. I specialize in the treatment of trauma and mood disorders. I am highly skilled in treating sexua...

Mandarin Counseling & Wellness

Jacksonville

Florida

Mandarin Counseling is a group practice consisting of social workers, licensed mental health clinicians and licensed marriage and family therapists. We are dedicated to providing quality, professional and compassionate mental health services. Most treatment modalities are offered including cognitive behavioral, family systems, EMDR, play therapy, coaching, psychological testing, couples...