Reality Therapy states that individuals, not mental health issues, are responsible for their actions and behavior. People make choices that help them get their needs met, but some of these choices are unhelpful, leading to poor relationships skills and ways of relating to others. The therapist’s goal is to motivate individuals to take responsibility for their choices and behavior.
Counselors traditionally use Reality Therapy in prisons and schools. They can use it for individuals, couples, or groups.
Some mental health professionals claim Reality Therapy doesn’t validate mental health diagnoses.
Motivation, behavior, choices, and action are core components in Reality Therapy. Your therapist might help you understand each of these concepts and how they apply to your life. Therapists often spend time asking clients what their needs are. These can range from small things, such as desiring to rid yourself of a bad habit, to larger-scale issues, such as wanting to get your needs more fully met by your partner. Your therapist will help you decide what behaviors can more efficiently get your needs met.
Much of Reality Therapy involves identifying how your behavior, thus far, hasn’t been helpful. Once you gain this understanding, you will be more likely to make choices that align with getting your needs met in healthy, positive ways.
Therapists Who Specialize in Using Reality Therapy
No two people are alike and no ‘one’ person is perfect. People walk different journey’s in their lives. Some journeys are flower filled paths with lots of green grass and sunlight; others have some flowers, fading grass and cloudy days. Whatever journey you have been on, one must continue to be optimistic about their journey and be reasonable about their individual expectations of self and othe...
We work with children, youth, couples, groups and families on issues of trauma, change, loss, resilience and well-being. We offer an 8 session pack for $750 or 4 session pack for $400. We hike, walk, snowshoe, bike, climb, camp, ski, engage in experiential activities and enjoy the outdoors with clients as we work clinically on important life issues. We also have an office based in Denver for th...
I assist clients in living their best life. Life moves in stages and it is possible to function at your highest level despite current challenges. I empower my client to traverse life obstacles while accepting their current life conditions. I have skills and training to assist clients from teens to older adult life. My skill set empowers my clients to manage traumas, life transitions, divorce,...
As humans, we are faced with hardships. It is often difficult to handle these challenges straight on. Through open and supportive dialogue, we can work together to effectively adjust to challenges and changes in your life. We will uncover and build upon existing strengths and skills. Using a collaborative and supportive approach to therapy, we will set manageable goals; achieve them, and begin ...
We're all just trying to make sense of this thing called life. Some of us are empowered while others struggle. No matter where you might find yourself on this continuum, I can help you. Whether we explore what it means to be more fully actualized or simply craft a space for you to catch your breath during a particular challenging time in your life, I aim to support and walk with you through...
I enjoy working with clients that are looking for practical help with their problem. Most of the clients I see are working through anxiety, stress, depression, relationship, or diversity issues. Often clients complete therapy when they reach their goal: symptom relief and a greater understanding of themselves. Many clients are able to see me during the week as I work in an office that is...
I have experience working with an array of clients. I often work with children, adolescents and teenagers ages 4 to 18. I work with children who have experienced trauma and neglect as well as ADHD, Anxiety, ODD and other severe emotional disorders. I also have experience with individual and family therapy. Through my professional experience I have worked with children in residential facilities,...
*ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS. DISTANCE THERAPY AVAILABLE* I enjoy working with clients of all ages, relationship status, culture, and life experience. I strive to facilitate a safe, non-judgemental, therapeutic, secure environment, where individuals can feel freely express their struggles and successes. Seeking counseling can be difficult, and as a therapist I respect and value the courage it takes t...
I feel the basis of good therapy is the relationship between the therapist and the client/clients. I seek first to create a trusting safe space for the clients through being present and actively listening. I am eclectic in my counseling and use my intuition and the client's preferences in choosing a modality. I enjoy the art of therapy, and have decided to do what I really love: helping people ...
I view every person as a unique individual with specific goals, perspectives, barriers, and background. Relationships (missing and broken), demands and expectations that lead to letdowns and depression, trauma, undesired repetitive behaviors, refusal to accept things as they are and shame ("something is wrong with me") are just a few of the common themes I help individuals and families with. I...
Hello. I enjoy working with children, adolescents, adults, and seniors. If you have depression, anxiety, or issues that you feel uncomfortable talking with others about, I offer a safe and confidential place to work on these issues. My goal is to help you feel more confident about yourself. I offer individual and family counseling. I want you to have a place to learn, grow and have an...
I have worked in mental health for over 20 years, with both teens and adults. I have provided a wide variety of support and counseling to address various mental health and adjustment issues among Veterans, individuals, families, and trauma survivors. My role as a therapist is to collaboratively identify your goals and work toward developing the skills and motivation you need to reach them. Seek...
I’m a therapist serving all of Texas, a mom, and a partner. My friends, family, clients, and coworkers are the most important things on the planet. I have a cat, Rocco, who’s a total jerk, and I love him. I am a HAES provider (Health At Every Size; look it up)! Three things that always make me happy: good coffee, The Office, and fresh hydrangeas :) I am certified in TF-CBT (trauma-focused...
Are you feeling stuck or lost? Is there something on your mind that you just cant work through alone? Sometimes we need a little help from someone to help us navigate these thoughts and feelings. Having someone you can talk to free from judgment can really make a difference in your day to day life. I want to help get you from point A to point B and work through all the things that are challengi...
If you find yourself lost in transition, existing but not living, all over the place - seeking clarity, direction, or purpose, and just feel like breaking while trying to hold it all together, then you’re in the right place. Allow me to journey with you as we work to un-complicate things. I provide a safe space to discuss difficult things. My counseling approach is integrative in which I draw f...
