What is Reality Therapy?

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Reality Therapy states that individuals, not mental health issues, are responsible for their actions and behavior. People make choices that help them get their needs met, but some of these choices are unhelpful, leading to poor relationships skills and ways of relating to others. The therapist’s goal is to motivate individuals to take responsibility for their choices and behavior.

Counselors traditionally use Reality Therapy in prisons and schools. They can use it for individuals, couples, or groups.

Some mental health professionals claim Reality Therapy doesn’t validate mental health diagnoses.

Motivation, behavior, choices, and action are core components in Reality Therapy. Your therapist might help you understand each of these concepts and how they apply to your life. Therapists often spend time asking clients what their needs are. These can range from small things, such as desiring to rid yourself of a bad habit, to larger-scale issues, such as wanting to get your needs more fully met by your partner. Your therapist will help you decide what behaviors can more efficiently get your needs met.

Much of Reality Therapy involves identifying how your behavior, thus far, hasn’t been helpful. Once you gain this understanding, you will be more likely to make choices that align with getting your needs met in healthy, positive ways.

Therapists Who Specialize in Using Reality Therapy

Craig Mcandrew

Kansas City

Missouri

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Dave Waxler

Houston

Texas

Many people who are facing difficulties ask the same question... "Where do I begin?" That sense of uncertainty can lead to a lack of confidence along with feelings of anxiety, hopelessness, and self-doubt. I believe that confidence begins with clarity. My collaborative approach focuses on helping you clarify your values and priorities so you can create authentic goals in your life that bring...
Hi! My name is Brittany and I've been working in the psychology field since 2002 when I worked as a research assistant during undergraduate at the University of Georgia. Fifteen of those years are in counseling. My goal is to assist clients in making informed and healthy decisions according to their value system. I look forward to working with you. Everyone has difficulties from time to time....

AYCMARC of Denver

Denver

Colorado

AYCMARC, (We are open when everyone else is closed) asks you this question: true or false. The only person you can change is your self (surprise! answer). Hi my name is Mark M Miller. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), Licensed Addiction Counselor (LAC) and the founder of at Your Convenience Mental Health and Relationship Counseling of Denver (AYCMARC). The answer to the question is...
I respect that each person is different and believe there is no one solution for everyone. I believe in treating the whole person which includes mind and body. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 20 years of experience counseling children, adults, seniors, couples and families. My training allows me to draw from different methods from which we can develop new ways to cope with sadness,...

Sandra Braun

Las Vegas

Nevada

I have 35 years of counseling experience working with adults, adolescents, and couples. My expertise is with Post Traumatic stress Disorder, addiction, marriage counseling, and adult children from dysfunctional families. I do not believe in hopeless cases and I'm very good at igniting hope and trust. I currently have daytime appointments available. I wrote my master's theses on the recovery...
Hello! I understand the importance of finding someone you will feel comfortable with to discuss difficult times and intimate issues you have endured or are enduring. I will provide a comfortable and safe environment to support you through your journey of life. You will strengthen your inner character and learn new ways of managing change, distress, depression, anxiety, fear, negativity, and...
I offer a safe space for you to be vulnerable, heard, and validated. I understand that no single approach is right for any one person. We will work together to clarify your needs. In a non-judgmental space, you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and ideas. We will navigate your fears, process your past, and learn the coping skills that will be best suited for you. Through therapy, you will fe...
Modern Mental Health is an outpatient mental health facility located in Broken Arrow, Oklahoma. It is Modern Mental Health’s mission to help those suffering with mental health challenges to become self-sufficient and productive adults one day. Our belief is that the earlier the interventions, the higher the likelihood that the individual will learn to manage or even eradicate problematic sympto...

Tara Bremer Quintana

Albuquerque

New Mexico

Tara is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker with a broad range of professional experience. She works with children, adolescents, and adults in both individual and family settings. She has experience assisting clients as they navigate life transitions, grief/loss, depression, anxiety, stress, emotional disturbance, trauma, anger, parenting challenges, low self esteem, and systemic...
At Therapeutic Health Endeavors Institute (THE Institute) therapy options are more than just a standardized method of service delivery. Our therapy practice offers a personalized way to examine your emotional/behavioral needs on your way to improving your life. By working with you to build skills to help yourself, THE Institute helps you make improvements that are lifelong. THE Institute has...

Lechanne Ledger

Cleveland

Ohio

I am a Licensed Social Worker whose counseling is evident to my clients across all ages and backgrounds. I am especially driven to help the adolescent and young adult population. I believe all people deserve the chance to be heard without judgement and possess the ability to take control of their lives so that positive changes begin to happen. I have experience working with clients of all ages ...

Emily R Hanson

Fort Worth

Texas

**Accepting New Clients January 2021** LPC, LCDC: Exciting events like family, friends & work aspirations challenge us against our inner personal needs. These rub up against each other often fighting for the limited energies we have to spend. I believe we have to take a time out to evaluate all these things that make life exiting and often times stressful. I affirm WE ALL have the ability to...