What is Reality Therapy?

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Reality Therapy states that individuals, not mental health issues, are responsible for their actions and behavior. People make choices that help them get their needs met, but some of these choices are unhelpful, leading to poor relationships skills and ways of relating to others. The therapist’s goal is to motivate individuals to take responsibility for their choices and behavior.

Counselors traditionally use Reality Therapy in prisons and schools. They can use it for individuals, couples, or groups.

Some mental health professionals claim Reality Therapy doesn’t validate mental health diagnoses.

Motivation, behavior, choices, and action are core components in Reality Therapy. Your therapist might help you understand each of these concepts and how they apply to your life. Therapists often spend time asking clients what their needs are. These can range from small things, such as desiring to rid yourself of a bad habit, to larger-scale issues, such as wanting to get your needs more fully met by your partner. Your therapist will help you decide what behaviors can more efficiently get your needs met.

Much of Reality Therapy involves identifying how your behavior, thus far, hasn’t been helpful. Once you gain this understanding, you will be more likely to make choices that align with getting your needs met in healthy, positive ways.

Therapists Who Specialize in Using Reality Therapy

Rachel Landman

New York

New York

Rachel’s approach is highly personalized for each client. She provides a warm and nonjudgmental environment to foster strong therapeutic relationships with an emphasis on trust and acceptance. She understands everyone needs someone who will listen and accept them for who they are. Rachel’s primary focus is on existential issues, engulfed in the psychodynamic approach using a toolbox of CBT skil...
If you are looking for a place that will facilitate and collaborate with you toward a more empowered stance, give me a call. Together we will engage to further your realizations for a healthier lifestyle. I can assist you in a number of areas that include, but not limited to, substance use, trauma related issues, relationships, and veteran's counseling. Services are geared for discovery of inne...

Josh Zlatkus

Philadelphia

Pennsylvania

*Offering telehealth options for all clients.* I work best with people who a) think they are too smart for therapy, or too smart to be generally understood, b) have been struggling with the same problem for many years, and/or c) could benefit from insight in addition to empathy. If one of the above describes you, I recommend reaching out for a consultation. Our first step is outlining how our...

Kristin Seymour Msn Rn Aprn-Bc

Saint Louis

Missouri

ADHD Authority, Harvard Professor, Psychiatrist Dr. Ned Hallowell, "If you have a chance to work with Kristin, don't think twice. I have referred clients to her and can tell you, she has magic. Not only does she have all the knowledge she needs, but she has the knack, the understanding & natural empathy of one who has been there, of one who really burns to make sure others do not suffer the way...

Sadia Upright

Charlotte

North Carolina

Are you struggling with feelings of worthlessness, overwhelming sadness, and thoughts about not being good enough? Have you suffered from deep trauma that has haunted you throughout your life, causing unbelievable pain? Are the things that used to work to help you deal with pain now apparently falling short? Often people reach a point in their lives where the pain from the past can no longer be...
Through learning to be fully present with your emotions, you will allow yourself the ability to commit to your meaningful life…. Hello, my name is Tracey Martin and I am a licensed clinical social worker. I have established the Center of Personal Empowerment in order to assist others with discovering their values and to make changes towards living their defined meaningful life. I believe strong...
I enjoy working with adolescents, adults and couples. A sample of issues I am experienced in working with include but are not limited to: anxiety, relationships, self esteem, depression, eating disorders, trauma, grief and loss. I am certified in Accelerated Resolution Therapy for trauma. I also work with pet loss. I am here to help others see their value, fulfill their authentic selves and liv...
I specialize in helping women find their inner beauty, so that they can be and give the best version of themselves. I accomplish this by helping unpack behavioral, relational patterns and/or distorted perceptions that hinder you from being who you are designed/created to be. While you can't change your past, you can, do the work to better understand yourself. And resolve the issue(s) in your li...
Looking for brief therapy to work through a pacific issue that you've not been able to resolve on your own? EMDR therapy helps people process disturbing memories, thoughts, feelings that can greatly reduce therapy sessions to even just a few sessions in many cases. EMDR can reduce addiction cravings and the intensity of chronic pain and discomfort. It is used to help people lower their anxiety,...

Eryn Hawks Wilkinson

Chattanooga

Tennessee

"There is nothing wrong with you. There is something wrong with what happened to you." The ways we are treated by others can convince us that there is something inherently wrong with who we are. Trauma and negative life experiences teach us what to believe about ourselves and the world around us, but sometimes they inform us inaccurately. Whether you've experienced abuse, difficult relationship...
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor providing Individual, Couples, and Family Counseling in the Cheyenne Wyoming area. I'm a private practitioner working with diverse populations and age groups experiencing difficulties with depression, anxiety, behavioral issues, addiction, child and adolescent conduct disorders, grief, trauma, PTSD, and abuse. My specialties include working with Law...
I provide psychological therapy which focuses on the way that people think and behave. My practice specializes in working with children/adolescents and college/post-college adults who have problems adapting to their current life circumstances. Each person brings into treatment all their experiences, both joyous and problematic, which provides a base for the development of individualized goals a...
"Change is not about moving forward, it is letting go of where you are". I really value this quote and refer to it daily; not only in my life but also when helping with the lives of others. I aim to offer supports and guidance to individuals, couples and families seeking assistance in making a change for the better. My goal is to collaborate with the individual, couple and or family to build...

Michael Zone

New York

New York

You're so tired of feeling like a fraud. You've done all of the 'right' things; a college degree, a good job, a nice house. Maybe 2.5 kids. By all measures, you're a success. But no matter how prosperous you are in many areas of your life, you can't help but feel empty & unfulfilled inside. Looking back, you see that these weights have always been on you- anxiety, sadness, anger, or just proble...
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